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How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to be with him? (anymore)

Profile: Jigglymike91
Jigglymike91 on Jun 1, 2016
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Tell him you don't think you two are a good match for each other. There are other people out there who will be even better for him than you are, and you hope that he finds that person.
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Profile: alwaysthinkpositive
alwaysthinkpositive on Mar 29, 2017
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I had this problem - it was the hardest thing I have ever had to do as I cared about him so so much but unfortunately the love had just gone. I had put it off for 3 months. I finally sat him down and just told him how i felt and explained how staying with him wasn't fair on him as he needed someone who truly loved him, and it wasn't fair for me to give someone false love. It's hard but you'll both be happier for it in the long run. Hope this helped x
Profile: Scool7
Scool7 on Jan 25, 2018
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I have been dating this guy for about 3 months I moved way to fast at first and have gotten in to deep .. the love of my life comes back in to my life and I don’t wanna pass up this chance how do I break up with my current boyfriend without hurting him ? He thinks we are life long partners
Profile: TeenWolf
TeenWolf on Jun 1, 2016
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If he has been with you for years you may wanna take the process slow however if he has been with you weeks then just let him down but do it easy remember us guys have hearts to
Profile: SunflowerRobyn
SunflowerRobyn on May 13, 2016
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This is always difficult to get around, but probably easiest to address how you are feeling towards the relationship but let him down gently. Say you still respect him and like him as a person but you need to be on your own. The worst part will be getting round to doing it in the first place so best of luck- put yourself first x
Profile: LoveAll425
LoveAll425 on May 25, 2016
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Sit him down and tell him how you feel!!!!!and why you want to break up with him!!!!!!
Profile: softwallflower
softwallflower on May 25, 2016
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Try to be gentle. Thank him for this beautiful time you spent with him, and for all the happiness. Don't say „let's be friends“ because people usually hate this sentence after a break up.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 29, 2016
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First of all, think everything through. Be sure you really don't have d=feelings for him at all and he became a stranger to you. The thing is - break ups may be tough for both lovers and you do not want to suffer from your decision. Find a day when he is not down and explain everything that you have. You should know that everyone left behind always have lots of unanswered questions afterwards, so make sure he understood your choice. If needed, try be supportive after break up and don't be afraid to ask him how is he doing. Remember that he is a living person with feelings and memories.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 9, 2018
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I'm sorry. I apologize now for what I'm going to say. I don't want to be with you anymore. I just don't feel ok being with you anymore.
Profile: KleineHaschen
KleineHaschen on May 26, 2016
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I think the best way is to be gentle, sit him down, tell him what you feel is wrong in the relationship and why you can't be with him anymore. Expect him to be angry and mad but don't be defensive about it, since if he truly loves you, he would feel abandoned and hurt. Give him space and time, and maybe in the future there is a possibility of a friendship, you never know. Good luck with everything and I wish you a happy life
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