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How do I tell my boyfriend I'm not happy?

Profile: rudelixmarizia
rudelixmarizia on Jul 9, 2016
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Be blunt and if he's the reason you aren't then you should straight up tell him so he can think of ways to make you happier. Boys can't read a girl's thoughts and sometimes we make that mistake. Don't be one of those girls who gets upset with their boyfriends and not tell them why.
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Profile: RobVL
RobVL on Jul 9, 2016
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Whatever you do, don't push him away or start acting abnormal. Rather approach him and sit him down and communicate. Note I said communicate, not talk. There is a difference, especially in my mind. Relationships only work when we communicate. Acting up or pushing a partner away hurts both of you. And it is ok if he isn't able to communicate as effectively as you might be doing. But communicating and being open makes a world of difference, even if it really feels impossible some times.
Profile: Flawlessinsanity21
Flawlessinsanity21 on Jul 10, 2016
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Just tell him. There is no way to beat that subject around the bush, it's a very tough subject which is why you just have to be straight with them. Be open and be honest. Tell him that you are unhappy, tell him why you are unhappy. Maybe even tell him what you need to be happy. Just explain it to him. He should be caring and understanding of your feelings.
Profile: Talktome1995
Talktome1995 on Jul 11, 2016
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Hello! Speaking from the heart is always the best option. When I told my boyfriend that I was unhappy, he appreciated the honesty. Honesty is always the best policy. If you have something on your mind, just say it. Good luck.
Profile: Saraf
Saraf on Jul 13, 2016
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Communication is one of the key things that actually has the capability of establishing the bond. You have a good communication going on, you know what's going on his mind. He has a good communication with you, knows what's been bothering how. That's how it works. give and take. Communication lays the bridge between two. and helps to bond And when there's a communication gap between the two, you don't really feel connected to the deep. So if i'm not happy about something, i'd prefer to be verbal about it rather than giving him signs to pick up my unhappy vibe. I'd be open about it, have a talk and lay it out to him. Thats communication, right there.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 15, 2016
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This is a very common situation in now a days. It's either your SO is not doing his part of you just fall out of love. But the best thing someone can do is just to give time to talk about things and say it to him. Do not sugar coat it. You just have to say it that you're not happy and give the reason why you're feeling that way.
Profile: Naturallyhappy00
Naturallyhappy00 on Jul 15, 2016
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You should sit your boyfriend down and tell them your feelings and let him know that you're feeling this way so maybe he can fix it before it's too late
Profile: airreeekuh
airreeekuh on Jul 15, 2016
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Be honest with how you really feel. Tell them it because there is nothing much more hurtful than leading someone on.
Profile: simplisticmoon
simplisticmoon on Jul 16, 2016
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Be straight up and honest. Beating around the bush will do no good whatsoever. Tell him how you feel, and that you're doing this for you, not because he did something wrong. You have control of your happiness, don't let anyone get in the way of it.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 17, 2016
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I think that the best thing you can do is be honest and direct. If you are not happy with something in your relationship, talk about it. If you are stressed out, talk about it. Our spouses are there to love and support us. Open communication is the best thing for all of those involved. I know it can be hard to tell someone how you are feeling, especially if admitting that you are not happy is scary for you too. I now that it was hard for me to tell anyone that I was depressed because that meant I had to admit it to myself. Take the step in telling someone, especially someone who loves you and cares for you. It may seem scary now, but in the end you will feel better. It may even make you closer as a couple.
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