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How do I tell my boyfriend I'm not happy?

Profile: RogerDan555
RogerDan555 on Jun 17, 2016
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Sit and discuss with him what bothers you. Try and make him understand how you both can work out on things.
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queenofspaids on Jun 18, 2016
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Try to sit him down and explain what exactly is on your mind and how you think you could be happy again. Problem solve and work on it together.
Profile: SiriuslyAsh
SiriuslyAsh on Jun 19, 2016
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Be honest and mindful of his feelings. It's your right to be able to express yourself freely. At the same time, you may not want to hurt his feelings in case he really cares about you and wants to do what he can to make you happy.
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Anonymous on Jun 24, 2016
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Telling your companion how you truly feel can be difficult in any circumstance. When you're not feeling happy, the first thing you need to do is ask yourself what in particular is causing you to feel that way. Don't be afraid to ask yourself what you need to, as that'll only serve to make things easier later. This will help you figure out exactly what to say, and how to say it. Once you feel comfortable, you should set aside a time to talk to your boyfriend about your feelings. Make sure you approach the manner in a friendly, non-hostile way, and maintain focus on the topic at hand. All in all, wait until you feel comfortable with discussing it. If you're in any danger, however, do not hesitate to contact the proper authorities, or a helpline if need be.
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Anonymous on Jun 25, 2016
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Sit down with him and tell him gently that you don't feel the connection anymore. You need to be honest and gentle with his feelings.
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Y0LANDAH on Jun 29, 2016
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Take time to plan on what day to meet. Discuss his reflections on behalf of the relationship then state out yours after. Finding ways to make ends meet
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Anonymous on Jul 1, 2016
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Tell him that you want to talk about your feelings and stress that these are your feelings. You can tell him perhaps that you fell not happy at the moment and that you will find out -with him- what you can do about that.
Profile: Pandette
Pandette on Jul 7, 2016
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Communication is always key in every relationship, don't ever forget that. Do you know what is causing you not to be happy? How about just sitting down with your partner and telling them what is on your mind? Sometimes this may seem difficult, so you could always write them a letter explaining your situation. Sometimes it may seem like avoidance is the best option, but if you are not happy, perhaps your partner can help to ensure that you are happy in the long run. Remember, always try to talk it out and we are here to help!
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Anonymous on Jul 7, 2016
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Start by sitting down face-to-face in a place where their aren't any distractions. Start by saying something along the lines of "I need to speak with you about something, but I need you to listen to me and not interrupt." Tell him everything, tell him what makes you not happy and explain to him every detail
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Anonymous on Jul 8, 2016
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Two important things in any relationship are communication and trust. Start by asking him to keep a calm and level head when you confide in him with something you want to talk about, then go ahead and explain to him exactly how you are feeling. Open communication and honesty will go a long way, and he could be able to help you in ways you are not expecting.
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