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How do I tell my boyfriend I'm not happy?

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Anonymous on Aug 27, 2016
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The best thing to do would be keep calm, cool and collected and tell him what you honestly feel, it's best to be honest to people and especially people you love. I've gone through this before and I've confronted him about it and things did get a bit better.
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Anonymous on Feb 9, 2017
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You just tell him. He is your boyfriend after all, and for a reason. You trust him. Tell him the truth and he will understand, if not help you get through this together.
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Anonymous on Jan 24, 2018
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I would suggest pinpointing the specific thing(s) about your relationship that make you happy. Try to discuss the possibility of changing these specific things without making him feel like you are completely unhappy with everything about your relationship.
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Anonymous on Apr 28, 2018
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Take time to sit down and have a calm conversation about it. One step at a time. Try to get to the root of the problem and come to an understanding about it.
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HopeIsTheKey101 on May 9, 2018
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You can plan out what you are going to say, then sit him down and tell him how you feel. :)
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MissNadia on May 31, 2018
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Commumication is the key..so communicate!!be complwry honest with him why ure not happy. Be real..say the truth
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Octoberskye1996 on Jun 14, 2018
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Have you all talked about this before? Ask yourself what exactly you are not happy with. Did something happen to make you unhappy with him?
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Anonymous on Jul 18, 2018
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That can be difficult to do but the best thing you could do is just be honest. Let him know how you feel on the inside and number one make sure its right for you and that's truly how you feel.
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SocialLemon12 on Jul 20, 2018
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Honesty is the best thing to go with. This way you will express your feelings and help him understand
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AnnaTope on Aug 23, 2018
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I think it’s important if not critical when in a relationship to share the way you are feeling. It doesn’t necessarily have to come across as mean, rude or lack of. A round table conversation stating the way you feel and the reasons behind it would be nice. Also try to include a solution for the issue, for example if you are not happy because of x,y,z let’s try to do more of x, y,z at least one or twice a week. Monitor your progress and if there isn’t much then another round table talk would be great. I have personally tried it in the past and it has worked for me.
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