How do I tell my boyfriend I'm not happy?

Go with him to a place were he is feeling comfortable. Tell him your Problem without criticizing him. Be Honestly even if its hard to tell him. Think about what you want to tell him before. Even if only 10% of what you think about before comes out of your mouth while you talk to him. Its always good to think about what you want to tell him before. When he is a nice person to you he will understand and you can work on it. And if not you will feel free after that. You only live once so don't waste time on People who don't want to work out things with you.

Be as gentle as possible, the likelihood is that it’s as difficult a time for him as it is for you. With patient discussion I’m sure you’ll both come to the agreement that a relationship is not appropriate where both parties are not benefiting, and separating will help you grow and mature as individuals better than if you remained together. I’m sure you’re going to be okay, it takes a lot of strength to admit that your situation isn’t ideal, considering how easy it would be to just remain in the same cycle constantly, but you know that change is inevitable and that is a very healthy outlook on life. I wish you a very happy life and I hope both of you will overcome this with minimal heartache, but if you do, just remember that moving on now will save you from future pain. Best of luck!

It's not an easy thing to tell someone when you feel this horrible emotion. There is no right or wrong way to say it. In my opinion, I would just say that you should say that currently you aren't happy in the relationship and express how you want things to change between you two. The best thing to do in this situation is to explore why you might not be happy in the relationship and see what you both can do to change how things currently are. It's a horrible and uncomfortable feeling to bare on your shoulders but as always, if you need to share these feelings but you can't tell your boyfriend yet- then we are always here to listen on 7 cups. We want to support you and make you feel that you can be heard when it's so hard to speak.

I've had to do this before, and to be honest it wasn't easy. But ultimately you need to do what's right for you. If you're not happy, sit down with him and say that as much as you've enjoyed your time together, it's just not the right fit. It doesn't make you a bad person to want to find happiness 💕 Please remember that. A lot of us stay in an unhappy relationship because we don't want to hurt the other person. But, they sacrifice their own happiness. I did this for 3 years! I'm never getting those 3 years back. So please make the right decision for you. It's time to be selfish. Thank of yourself and start living again!

you tell your boyfriend that you are not happy by your actions and words. but try to communicate and try to express your feelings as best as possible so that your bf could understand and not make him confused. Try not to confuse him because it could make him mad or something like that.Try talking to him as a friend and try to specify the reason or reasons you are unhappy. But i know what may work for some may not work for others. But if you were in his position how would you like him to describe to you his unhappiness?

Think about what exactly makes you unhappy and what he could do to change that. Then tell him, theres something bothering you and you would need him to sort things through. Tell him about your concerns, do not once blame him, but explain your feelings. Hopefully he can understand! You can ask him, if he can think of anything to change the situation, if he cannot you have already made up your minde before and can present you possible solution. Ask him what he thinks about it, if he can imagine doing that or behaving that way. Be open to alterations from his side! Remember, you dont have to sort it out in that exact moment, its ok to have a good nights sleep and rediscuss the next day.

Send him a long or short text (I'm a text person and conversations like this aren't easy in person) and be honest about how you feel. Don't beat around the bush. List the reasons why you are not happy, nobody will sue you for speaking your mind. If you want to tall him in person and you feel you can then set a time and let him know. When you meet, talk to him about your feelings and the reasons. In both cases, when you are done, try to suggest ways you problem can be helped. Ask him for his opinions too.

You must find time where both of you can talk with no interruptions ,This is really important . If you are unhappy with the way your relationship is going . Or if something else is making you unhappy. Then its important that you handle the situation with sensitivity .explain that you need to say your part first ..then he can talk and you listen to his thoughts too. make sure that you both get heard and if things get heated then make the decision for you both to have time to think about what has been said .then you both will be able to think clearly. I hope all goes well for you both

Sit down together and start and honest but caring conversation telling him how you feel and what is the reason for you feel that way. Be open and honest. He is on your side and you are on his. Being open and vulnerable with someone you are close with helps both of you to navigate through hard times. It can be a painful and sad conversation but it might be freeing and a first step to being happy again. It's good start to be honest with yourself why you are unhappy and then tell your partner the truth. You can always start with - i need to tell you something and it might be hard to listen but I am not happy because... I hope this helps

Communication and location is key, if you are unhappy with the relationship or with your boyfriend, find a good place where you are comfortable and this conversation can continue, I would avoid texting as your boyfriend might not get the seriousness of your tone of voice. I recommend in person but if that is too hard for you, a phone call should suffice. Being able to express how one feels in a relationship can be hard and although there are challenges that push out of our comfort zone. These are steps that much be taken that can ensure a healthy relationship now and in the future.