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How do I tell my boyfriend I'm not happy?

Profile: Brittany8013
Brittany8013 on Feb 21, 2018
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Telling someone you arent happy, weather its because of them, or life in general can be very difficult, however, telling them in a gentle way, sitting them down and really explaining things to them is usually the best way to go.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 21, 2018
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Try subtly showing him that you are not happy in the relationship.If he does not understand your actions then tell him directly.It will be difficult in the beginning but it'll be worth it.
Profile: BeepSheep1
BeepSheep1 on Feb 24, 2018
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Be completely honest with him. Get with him in person (unless he's an online boyfriend), and express your feelings. Just be completely honest.
Profile: beautifulDreamer33
beautifulDreamer33 on Mar 1, 2018
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I talk to him openly abot things that makes me unhappy and try to solve with him together, if its possible.
Profile: caringWings27
caringWings27 on Mar 2, 2018
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Be honest with him, tell him why you're not happy not just that you're not happy. Work with him so that he can understand so that either the issues can be fixed or you can part on good terms. Don't lie, don't just up and leave or there will be more questions. Think about it beforehand, have your thoughts figured out and then have a conversation with him someplace private that isn't a strong emotional site for the two of you.
Profile: Claudialistens
Claudialistens on Mar 2, 2018
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Tell him you need to talk to him , maybe ask him to sit down beside you. Start to tell him that you are not ok and explain how you are feeling, let him know everything that is going on it will be a huge weight off your shoulders! If he loves you he will understand and care for you through this difficult time !
Profile: N17
N17 on Mar 7, 2018
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Being straightforward an truthful about it. It's important to be happy. It's something that should be taken seriously and you two ( if you want to stay with him ) should work on that. Explain him in a detailed way the cause of the sadness, and make him understand.
Profile: Forceofecho
Forceofecho on Mar 10, 2018
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Usually talking to him helps a LOT, making him aware as to the reason you're unhappy and what has made you that way can help.
Profile: healingamonster
healingamonster on Mar 19, 2018
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If your not happy with him, I would tell him soon. If you are not happy, tell him so he can help you
Profile: N1Listener
N1Listener on Mar 23, 2018
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In my experience he is your boyfriend and if your not happy in the relationship you have a right to tell him that and he should respect your honesty and maturity.
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