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How do I tell my boyfriend I'm not happy?

Profile: handsomeForest17
handsomeForest17 on Oct 29, 2016
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You can tell him about your feelings and why do you think you are not happy. Share these feelings with your bf and maybe he can help you out aswell.
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Profile: fancyGrace43
fancyGrace43 on Nov 3, 2016
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Honesty is the best policy. You need to share your thoughts and feelings with your loved one, even if it is darker side of yours. Eventually he will figure out and will see real you as you are - unhappy. Better search for help from your closest people like boyfriend than try to cope with sadness by yourself.
Profile: serenity373
serenity373 on Nov 4, 2016
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Tell him over a nice coffee date or lunch. It is important to be honest especially in relationships. If he loves you than he will want to communicate and work for you to make things right again
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Anonymous on Nov 4, 2016
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I think that it would be the best if you just come out and say it, but at the right time. Good luck!
Profile: cosyheart21
cosyheart21 on Nov 5, 2016
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Honesty and communication are key to any happy relationship. Even though it can be hard, be open and honest with your boyfriend, and tell him how you're feeling, and talk to him about what you both do to try to work things out. It make not be an easy conversation, but being honest is always worth it in the end.
Profile: compassionateMist30
compassionateMist30 on Nov 12, 2016
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Just be honest about it. Honesty is the best policy. If you know what is making you unhappy tell him.
Profile: LovelySoul94
LovelySoul94 on Nov 15, 2016
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Take your moment to talk with him. Sit quietly on the couch and tell him how you feel. Remember: don't accuse him, just tell your feelings. It will predispose him to listen more carefully and to focus on YOU. Communication is fundamental in every relationship. When someone you love opens its heart with you, this can only make you feel more connected and closer to them. So, don't be afraid to make this step and give him the possibility to love you more and more ;)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 15, 2016
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Tell him straight up. If you are afraid what he'll do or say, approach the matter with care. After that maybe offer him some advice on how to improve in his support of you, and how to help
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Anonymous on Jan 7, 2017
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Just tell him. He deserves to know. You shouldn't be living a lie. You deserve to be happy too. If you aren't happy you need to say it out loud. It'll be hard but once it's out you might even feel better and not feel guilty about hiding it either. Hope this helps
Profile: Iknowhatitfeelslike
Iknowhatitfeelslike on Feb 1, 2017
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think before you start by highlighting positive things in your relationships, paying attention to your tone of voice, most times we don't pay attention when we are emotional and let him know how you feel, it may not be a direct result of him doing or not doing but its based on the time, space and circumstances atm and you are in a place where you feel like this, once he is open minded he will work with you to understand where you are coming from, because generally feelings change, they are guests that come and go but the important thing is that you communicate with each other about the highs and lows, especially if you love each other and want to preserve the relationship :)
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