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How do I stop missing my ex?

Profile: VeinsofEden
VeinsofEden on Jul 13, 2017
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Honestly? You don't just stop missing them like that. It takes time. Especially if you've been together for so long. You need to be able to grieve that they're NOT with you anymore and try to put them behind. Change your routine, go out with friends, speak with family members. Distract yourself so you don't find your ex lingering through your mind.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 19, 2017
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Start thinking about all the good things you can do when you are without him/her. And try to not think about the person anymore, it was a good time, but things end. Move on and try to find yourself again or someone new.
Profile: aimy
aimy on Jul 21, 2017
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Occupy your mind. Spend time doing something you love. Lean on friends/family if you can. Get rid of sentimental items, get a new wardrobe or redecorate your room. Freshen up your life and you'll soon realise you don't actually need them around to feel happiness.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 21, 2017
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Find a new hobby, something that will make you feel good and possibly connect with new people. It can be as simple as reading books and as complicated as synchronized skating. After a breakup it is okay to feel overwhelmed, and if the feeling is very persistent don't hesitate to seek out a friend, a listener on 7 Cups or even a mental health professional to aid you in your journey.
Profile: dystopianDreamer
dystopianDreamer on Jul 27, 2017
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You need to distract yourself. Do things you enjoy, things that won't remind you of your ex. You are so amazing and deserve to be happy. If missing your ex is getting you down, get some friends and do something you enjoy. You control your life, not your ex.
Profile: HonestTroy
HonestTroy on Aug 3, 2017
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I know you can’t help it. It’s your emotions, it’s the memories, it’s everything rolled up together. But somehow you need to find a way to move on. Hang out with friends and meet people when you go out, it doesn’t have to be a romantic connection, maybe someone you could catch a movie or grab an ice cream with. You know… a friend... GYM Everyone says physical activity is a great way to get over someone, because it’s true. If you’re feeling stressed and anxious, the best thing you can do is to sweat. This not only slowly puts you into tip-top shape, but it helps release your hormones and reduce your stress and anxiety levels. So, get that playlist ready :)
Profile: Alley624
Alley624 on Aug 10, 2017
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I personally found a hobby and worked on making a better version of myself. I didn't have time to miss my ex.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 19, 2017
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By working on yourself, taking daily steps towards becoming a better you and building a new life, the way you want it to be !
Profile: LindaBg
LindaBg on Sep 3, 2017
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Remember why the relationship ended and what was unhealthy for you dring this time. If you concentrate on why you are better off now it might be easier.
Profile: Youarepriceless
Youarepriceless on Sep 28, 2017
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I dont think you just stop missing someone. But you learn to deal with it, come to terms with what has happened and then accept it which ultimately allows you to move forward with your life slowly until it no longer feels like you "need" them. Its hard to think anyone else could take their place in the future but it happens. I believe love is a choice, it is the decision to give respect, understanding, patience, kindness and the room for them to grow without acting like you own them.
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