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How do I stop missing my ex?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 19, 2016
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I believe that there was a reason that made your ex stop being present in your life. Whether it was because of some incompatibily or a simple disconnection that no one can really foresee. All we know is that unhappy events take place in our lives and our way out is to move on and find something different, better, better love. Believe me when I say that someone better will happen in your life. I've been through that and experienced some amazement to see how brilliant things can get.
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Profile: Saudade42
Saudade42 on Oct 20, 2016
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Distract yourself. Go out meet new people and get to know them. Who knows it may lead to a new relationship.
Profile: cosyheart21
cosyheart21 on Oct 22, 2016
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You are not alone. Missing your ex is natural -after all, you're only human. However, it can be hard to keep your mind off your ex. Spend time with your friends and family, and people who support you. Get out of the house, and socialize with new people. Focus on new, positive things.
Profile: ultramarineblue
ultramarineblue on Oct 22, 2016
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Think of good times you had by yourself, before your relationship started. Think of how much more fun you could have with your friends now.
Profile: JustCallMeMike
JustCallMeMike on Oct 23, 2016
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You don't ever stop missing your ex. Your ex was once the biggest part of your life. You need to take everything they thought you and apply it to the next time you meet the person you love. I recently got out of a relationship too. I can say, I will never forget her. I will always love her for who she is. And if I do find another, I will make sure not to repeat the same mistakes I did with her. I will make sure she knows my love for her is endless.
Profile: originalbraveheart63
originalbraveheart63 on Oct 27, 2016
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One of the ways to stop that is to just find something you really enjoy doing. Finding a hobby would help you fill up your time and you would not think about your ex while doing it.
Profile: AravindSudev
AravindSudev on Oct 29, 2016
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The first thing you need is closure. Either you should be convinced that you have a better life that you might have had with your ex or you should get a reason to believe that she is absolutely not coming back. The first option is the best way to go. To realize how you can be happier without her. A bad move would be to get into another (seemingly) better relationship because you will unconsciously bring in the emotional residues of the past. The best way to get over this person is to find a way to be happy without any relationship for a breif period of time. Prove it as a fact to yourself that your happiness is not based on an external reference point such as herself. Do something that matters to you. Pick up a hobby, a cause. Do something that gives your life a meaning. When you finally realize that you never needed a relationship to be happy, That is when you get CLOSURE. From then you are totally ready to move on.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 30, 2016
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I keep myself as busy as I can and try not to think about them and create new traditions and new things to do that I enjoy.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 2, 2016
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Try to meet some new people. Do some fun stuff with friends and don't forget to spend some time with your family. It's okay to miss your ex and it's okay to feel bad/sad about, give it some time and then give is a place in your life.
Profile: masterofpokemon
masterofpokemon on Nov 10, 2016
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Get out there, go somewhere with friends,find something new that you like. Listen to music and think of something that you have always wanted to do and JUST DO IT.
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