How do i know if my ex wants me back?

Unless they tell you directly, it is only speculation. However, if you see them trying to make the effort to approach you or flirt with you then that could also be a sign. Even so, think about why you guys broke up. If the other party was a bad influence, or if you were in a toxic relationship, please do not fall back into it. Sometimes, you think you miss the person but in reality, you only miss the feeling you get when you are in a relationship. But if your relationship was not "problematic" then I'd say give it some time. With time, you'll be able to tell what they're after, be it friendship, or a romantic relationship.

When they let you know explicitly. I've been in the place before where we want everything to be a sign or secrete message. It may even be disheartening to feel like someone's not fighting for you. However, it allows for space to open up for the people that want to make an effort to be in your life. We all know what effort looks like, especially if we're the ones that actively exert effort to show we are present for others. You will know when an ex wants you back when there is no doubt in their actions AND words that they do. You are worth the effort you give.

I am not allowed to give advice, but we can chat about it and hopefully you will come to some sort of an answer to that by talking it through with me. I am sure you know him or her, and you best. A few questions to help you come to a decision. How does he/she treat you? Does he/she initiate contact or is it always you calling? Those questions might be a good start for you in finding out if he is still interested. Like I said, since I dont know him or you it could be harmful for me to give Advice so you are the best judge of if he is interested in your or not. You could also just ask him or her if they are interested or want you back. That might be the best thing to do.

Experienced, I can tell that my-ex wants me back by seeing him not throw away all my gifts, and keeps calling or sending messages even though I don't answer ... Then he visits my parents and siblings, and gives me a surprise birthday present ... even though I am didn't respond, he did it to show concern and wanted us to get back together. He also then asked my friend how I was, asking my mood, when is the right moment for him to meet and talk with me, when I walk around his house, he watch and try to keep watching from his window, while holding his phone and texting me.

While I can't speak for the general public, I could say that most of the time if this person it's interested in getting you back they will let you know. Somehow they will contact you, and they will try to get more involve in your life again. Don't read in between lines so you don't get the wrong signals here, and don't get high expectations so you don't get hurt. Keep in mind that if you were to get involved again communication is key and that the more open you both are and let each other know what you want, the easier things will be. It's difficult to know what the other person wants and what they are thinking when there's not an open communication. Good luck!

No human is a mind-reader or fortune-teller. Consider what happened when the relationship had a falling out. Would it be healthy to get back with the ex for you, for the ex, and for you together as a team? What are your feelings in the matter, and what is underneath those feelings? It's healthy for people to grow and change, but sometimes people can find a healthy and communicative way back to each other. Empathy, honesty, and respect and crucial keys to communication, without them there is likely to be a poor foundation. It's very possible for couples to maintain a friendship after the relationship. If you have these cornerstones of communication already, the easiest way to know the answer to your question is to ask your ex directly. It's disrespectful to infer what one may be thinking, and we want to respect the ones we love. We also deserve to be with people who want to be with us. One day, years from now you and your ex may encounter each other and feel that spark again. Until then, love yourself. Be well and good luck on your journey.

If you haven’t have contact with him/ her and they start a conversation with you, if they ask you to hang out and they ask you if you are seem someone, if they show interest about what have you been up to lately, if they bring memories that you two had, if they openly express they miss you and that breaking up wasn’t a good idea, if they specifically ask you if you want to get back together, if they prove they have change for the better and they put more attention to your needs, if they show that they are committed to make it work.

If he/she is finding excuses to keep in touch with you on a regular basis, that usually is a good indication. Some people believe exes can remain friends, but in my experience that usually isn't the case. Acquaintances maybe, but unless an ex wants to get back together, there really is no reason for them to keep in touch. Is your ex finding excuses to talk to you regularly? Do they seem genuinely interested in what you're up to? Or are they just coming in and out of your life because they're bored? If they are trying to have a genuine friendship with you, that means they want you back most likely.

After a breakup, most people wonder what it would be like to get back together. There is no doubt that your ex has at least thought about it. However, remember that they're your ex for a reason. If they broke up with you, would you want to take someone back who left you once? If you broke up with them, there must be a reason. If your ex contacts you pretty frequently or spends a lot of time with you, it could be a sign that they want you back. The biggest sign is when they make an effort to stay in your life. Always treat yourself with respect, and love yourself first! :) I hope this helped

How to know if your ex wants you back can be as simple as having a conversation with them about it. You can call and ask to go to dinner to discuss somethings that have been on your mind. If they agree to go to dinner that is a good sign that they care about you as a person. It may or may not mean they are ready or wanting to be back in a romantic relationship with you. They may want to be friends. This first step will give you the opportunity to share your feelings and allow them to share their feelings with you. Be prepared to be open and understand that it may or may not happen.