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How do i know if my ex wants me back?

Profile: gentleKitty7830
gentleKitty7830 on Apr 9, 2020
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It depends on how badly he's trying to catch up on you through call or text..you could clearly sense it if he's being genuine or not..for example he may ask your common friends about your well-being and where abouts or he mightn't have hooked up with anyone during the break which shows he still has feelings for you and it's a good gesture..he will try to reach you no matter how badly you avoid him from contacting you..he will never look for other girls during this break..well if this is the case then it's good for u to have hope of your ex coming back to you and be happy then
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Profile: emilymkmai
emilymkmai on Apr 17, 2020
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Messaging you back telling you that they miss you or should of never let you go. A lot of people after a break up start missing their ex. They'll messaging you back telling them they still love you, miss you, should still be with you, I'll treat you better, I've changed, etc. But ask yourself, do you want to get back with them, do you love them, do you miss them, do you believe they've changed, think things through before telling them the same thing. Don't do it if you're just lonely and, want to be with someone again.
Profile: KindblueEyes
KindblueEyes on Apr 22, 2020
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Do you want to go back to the relationship? If you are asking this question it would appear that your ex is communicating this to you in some way which gives you choices. The key to any relationship is communication, so the best way to start the conversation about reuniting it to ask. The next part of communication is to listen to what they tell you. Listen and honestly think about what was said before responding. Remember no matter what, you cannot change anyone else, you can only change how you respond to them. To make the relationship different, the change must begin with you, not your partner unless they also choose to work on making changes.
Profile: brightfulena
brightfulena on Apr 24, 2020
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Your ex with show you love and care, you deserve to be happy. You will have to trust with him, but never settle because you are worth more than you know. You have a very bright future ahead of you. I promise that things will get better. You have people who love and support you. Even when you feel alone, know we are here on 7 Cups. To answer your question further, you will know if your ex wants you back by their actions. Some questions to ask yourself are, are you feeling loved? Do you trust him? Do you see yourself with him?
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 24, 2020
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Whilst some people seem to manage to split up and immediately become the best of friends, that’s the exception and not the rule. It’s normal for two people that have broken up to have no contact with each other for quite a significant period, even if they do then manage to strike up a friendship later on. In fact, if you’re trying to get over each other, it’s normally the healthiest thing. So, if you never stopped having contact with one another, it might be a sign that they’ve never gotten over your relationship. After all, if you’ve still been seeing each other in person or messaging, you simply haven’t had a chance to forget one another. On the other hand, it could be that you did cut contact, but now they’ve got back in touch. Something’s telling you that they haven’t reached out just because they’ve decided that the time is right for the two of you to be friends. Beware of interpreting all kinds of contact the wrong way, though.
Profile: cheerfulcherry7
cheerfulcherry7 on Apr 25, 2020
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You would know your ex wants you back if they make an effort to get in touch with you, want to talk about memories you shared together, want to meet with you or suggest that they want to give your relationship another try. However, before getting back with an ex you should weight all of the pros and the cons, think about why your relationship ended and if you both of you would be willing to change and put in the effort to make it wort. Getting back with an ex would mean starting over from scratch because the relationship that you had before is no longer there. You would have the chance to create something new and better, if you think that's the best decision. If someone still cares about you they will make an effort to be with you and show you that they have changed.
Profile: trustedlistener976
trustedlistener976 on Apr 29, 2020
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He/she will keep asking about your own life, no matter whenever and wherever you are, she will keep behave as like you were still in a relationship and you MUST be aware of it. For me, getting back with an ex is totally the same as reading the same book, so you will know if you're getting back, 90% you will also know how it's gonna end. This is the thing that you need to be aware the most that your ex does really know your weakness spot. So, if their trying to reach you by hitting your weakness spot, it already totally meant thay he/she wants to have a relationship with you AGAIN.
Profile: 1man2pans
1man2pans on May 3, 2020
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the only for sure way to know, is if you have a conversation with your ex and talk about what went wrong and if it can be fixed and they want to make a positive attempt to be together with you. if your ex is not answering your calls or responding to your messages to talk about what went wrong , then that would be a clear signal to they do not want to get back together with you, but if they agre to go for a coffee or tea and want to talk about the problems that led up to the break up , then they are considering that there could be a future together.,
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 15, 2020
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You will know if he comes back. If he misses you he will contact you as soon as he can. From my own experience, I thought I had lost the love of my life but a week had gone by and he decided that he didn't want to leave me. He will show signs that he misses you, watch his actions. He will also think about it a lot. He may even want to be friends with you until then, but overall he will probably contact you if he wants you back. And he will probably want to work through this as well. If he really does love you, he will come back.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 28, 2020
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You will see a big difference on the way he treats you if he wants you back. Most likely, true would reach out to you more than you reach out to them. They also would become more or less jealous of you talking to other people. In other words, if an ex is trying to get you back they will probably act erratically and display these crazy mood swings. Your ex could say things like: “It looks like you’ve moved on.” Or “Have a nice life” because they try and use reverse physiology on you. I hope this helped.
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