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How do I know if my ex is thinking about me?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 16, 2018
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It doesn't matter if they are thinking about you. If they are not reaching out then they don't care enough. We are all human so occasionally we will think of our exes and in turn they will think about us too, that's a fact; but if he or she is not making the effort to reach out, then acknowledge the thought and let it go. My ex has been on my mind alot lately. I don't understand why because the relationship was horrible. I keep telling myself, if he is thinking of me as much as I am thinking about him then, he will do something about it. I will not reach out to him because he was not a good boyfriend. He lied and cheated he was manipulating and selfish. So I guess my thoughts will remain as just thoughts.
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Profile: sereneDreamer45
sereneDreamer45 on Sep 3, 2016
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Ask them. Keep it simple. Weigh up the best possible outcome with the worst. It's probably worth it since you're obviously thinking about them.
Profile: Dumplish
Dumplish on Jul 21, 2016
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Look for sign's and ask around to find out if she has talked about you. This should give you an idea
Profile: ReleasePath
ReleasePath on Oct 14, 2016
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We'll all remember our ex, they were part of our life. Just like you remember them, they'll remember you.
Profile: herroyalqueenship
herroyalqueenship on Sep 8, 2016
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Most of the time obsessing over your ex isn't a good thing. It holds you back more than it pushes you forward. Instead of wondering if they're thinking of you, why don't you direct your energy elsewhere?
Profile: ShineBrightly83
ShineBrightly83 on Jan 6, 2018
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It is normal after a relationship to think about our former partner. This is part of the process through which we heal and grow. I wouldn’t be surprised if your ex was thinking about you, what really matters though is that due to your incompatibilities that you are not together, and it is important to understand that even though we have feelings for someone that they aren’t necessarily right for us and being with them isn’t always a healthy decision .
Profile: Greatlistener1357
Greatlistener1357 on Apr 6, 2018
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You can't know that unless they tell you for sure. If he doesn't try and communicate with you then maybe hes moved on or hes thinking of a way to talk to you about how he feels.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 14, 2018
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I was once told to never seek an answer for something you can't really find an answer for. If your're wondering if your ex is thinking about you then wouldn't he have texted or called you? I have been through that same road for months wondering if my ex is thinking about me or not. However, I came to the realization that I shouldn't be wasting my time on someone who finds it so hard to let his ego down to text me if I am on his mind. My best tip for you is to learn to love yousrelf and use that time to think about becoming a better version of yourself. Make him think about you for a change!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 31, 2016
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You can never really tell for sure but if you are thinking of him and you think he might feel the same then you could try talking to him.
Profile: grayWolf19
grayWolf19 on Aug 13, 2016
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Worry about yourself, you should think about you, you should make yourself happy. You do not depend on anyone elses approval or affection
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