How do I know if my ex is thinking about me?

The important thing to remember is how you feel and to understand why your still thinking about him.

You can't know if your ex is thinking about you. There's no telepathic link, as much as we sometimes wish there is. We just need to accept when things are over, and try our hardest to move on, while sending positive thoughts their way.

What's in past is in past. Maybe it would be better for you to focus on your future. Maybe love is waiting for you over the corner.

You could ask them! It never hurts to ask, right? And you won't know unless you try. Honestly, I think it's better to ask, with the possibility of the answer being no, than never ask when the answer may have been yes. :)

Why does it matter if your ex is thinking of you? Why not focus that energy on being the best "you" you can be for the next person?

My bf dumped me for three says it hurt me badly we were dating for nine momths i been hurt before by guys but his was different im back woth him he told me why he left me but im scared get hurt my heart hurts i shake and then when im woth him i feel that litlte but my heart beats he says he loves me but ik i do more

There's different ways of knowing. They can call, text, reach out over social media or even come over.

To be honest, it's a moot question. I hope my ex is happy and doing well in life. Some people are friends with their ex after a breakup, other move on to different paths. Both are fine, as long as you're both happy. I moved to a different path, and wish her all the very best. If she thinks about me from time to time, I hope it's only happy memories; though either way, it shouldn't be something to keep me up at night.

Your ex might be asking about you through your common friends. If they are, you are going to find out sooner or later. Information like this spreads like wildfire amongst a group of friends.

you need to move on. And entertaining yourself and moving on will be the best. If they are thinking about you. Let them.