How do I know I will find someone else?
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Updated: Jun 12, 2022
Supergirl94
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Jun 11, 2017
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Have faith and hope. You will never have a definite answer to anything, you just have to wait and see how things play out. Where life takes you and what paths you will travel. :) Along those paths you will meet various people, and someday one person you meet could be the one you are looking for. Focus on everything else and do not focus on trying to find that person. They will arrive when they are meant to!
jadecx1
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Jul 15, 2017
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There is always someone for everyone, and although at times it may feel this is not the case, you should always remember that you are not limited to just one person.
Charlottewxo
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Jul 16, 2017
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Finding someone is just a natural process in life. It sounds like you have recently broken up with someone and you're worried about if you will ever find another partner? There is always plenty more fish in the water, as they say. Although I hate that saying, it is completely true. Life has a plan for you and you are sure to find someone new. Not necessarily through looking, most likely just by chance but you will find someone else and you will be sure to find a true love! I hope this helped! :)
enchantingRose58
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Aug 17, 2017
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Nobody knows for sure, but you should hold on to hope and get yourself ready in case that someone crosses your path!
hearthugger47
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Sep 24, 2017
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Honestly? You don't, however, you will meet the right person someday, just keep hoping. I know I am still waiting, but I think every minute will be worth it. And you don't have to sit around waiting for "the one" to show up, you can also take matters into your own hands, the poor person might be stuck in a tree or something ;)
SacredArtist
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Nov 16, 2017
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There is always someone else. The statement alone might sound abrasive for its repetitiousness. "Yes, everyone says that," type of thing. But you can prove it to yourself by going out of your way to (honestly) "move on." It may take actual effort because we, in many ways, are creatures of habit. We break habit through defying our own expectations and through believing in the power of change. Ironically, one of the only constants in life is change. And, funnily, what keeps us unhappy pretty often is simply not being able to keep up with that integral life energy. It is difficult to love someone with such fervor that it is near obsession and something you'd say you'd die for to then have to come to terms with walking away from. It is easy to say that in such flames there isn't such a thing as loss because it is "meant to be." And I will agree that the moments lived in such rapture may very well be meant and so, then, would be the life that comes after it. And it will be OK. You may find someone you love more OR differently (perhaps, both) and it will be something you wouldn't have been able to imagine, for the most part. Be excited as much as you can be and allow yourself time to process and move forward before the attempt because authentically and truly deciding to move forward should not be with the ball and chain of hoping for a resurrection of something that has died for that is not truly growing and "moving on." There is much that can be said about all the challenges you will face upon the loss of a lover in one way or another, so talk to someone you know to be wise, who will support you, who will remind you of your best self. Otherwise, all that there is left to be said is... there is always someone else so keep a healthy heart healthy and open to receive them and remember that a thing always begets itself so allow positivity to rule in the path that follows and if it is not that, rest first.
rosie24
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Nov 17, 2017
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"One day you'll find someone who shows you why it never worked with someone else" -Zakia/Purity
This quote is something I look to when I have tears in my eyes after a silly boy breaks my heart. Sometimes it's hard for us when we feel alone to realize that there is someone out there waiting for us. Maybe they are even going through the a heartbreak having the same thoughts we are! Be patient, strong, and tell you're heart to beat again.
Anonymous
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Nov 23, 2017
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Throughout our lives, new people come and go. So it is certain that someone will come to you, all you have to be is yourself.
lovelybones1764
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Nov 29, 2017
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You will. There is always a plan, whether that is gods, or the universes or whatever you believe in. You will find someone again. It may not be an instant thing, so be calm, your time will come.
EmRivale
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Dec 21, 2017
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Breakups are tough and can give the illusion that you won't find anybody again, especially if you weren't the one to make the decision. Perhaps remember the times when you weren't with this person. Have you grown up? Have you more specifically grown as a person? After a long term, even short term relationship things about you change. Of course you will find somebody else, in most cases you will be happier due to who you have become as a person. Acceptance is key to growth, which is key to finding happiness with someone else.
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