How do I know I will find someone else?
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Updated: Jun 12, 2022
Anonymous
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Feb 20, 2021
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You will. Moving on is hard because we feel we left something behind. But you also need to rediscover who you are after being a part of someone else. Learn to be with yourself and to like who you are. Be honest to you about you. Once that door is open, you will start to see clearly and others will see you too. But make sure you learn to love who you are, then find what you want, then focus on what you need. Someone else will appear for you, new journeys are not that far ahead. Be open to who the Universe sends, they might be right in front of you,
Anonymous
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Mar 12, 2021
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To begin answering this question I would first like to state a fact. To be honest we don't even know how long we as individuals, are in this world. Hence there are a lot of things in this world that we don't know about but we still go on right? the believe and faith in universe or just yourself that you are a good person no matter what you will meet someone and it can be anytime or anywhere is the way. Always remember what is meant for you will always reach you. Therefore don't worry about finding someone else rather focus on finding yourself first if you think you have found yourself then just keep on doing good for the society and someday you will definitely meet someone.
Warlendy
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Mar 17, 2021
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We will always find someone else even if we think not, there are too many people in the world who can be compatible with us, sometimes even better than the previous one, for example when I broke up with ex I thought that I was not going to return with anyone else but I am with someone else who is much better that is why hope should not be lost. we must always trust us and that it is never too late for a new opportunity, As one phrase says, more people live ahead and with better neighbors. believe me you will find someone better.
Anonymous
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Mar 19, 2021
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Different things determine what we consider to be important things about the kinds of people we would like to call our romantic partners or life partners. A long-term relationship or romantic relationship should be a healthy relationship. It may take months for a man or woman to know the truth about someone, especially in a new relationship. A loving relationship does have it's ups and downs but soul mates can get through red flags or hard instances though it may take a long time. True love or real love is about getting through the hard times together and romantic love is something every single person desires. An image of the perfect someone else might be based on objects or other needs, but an area to consider is that you can always use new experiences to find someone else, even if it is for the first time. Support from family members or best friends helps reassure your confidence
awags
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Apr 1, 2021
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There is no guarantee to this except believing that what you bring to the table will be enough for someone to stay. YOU are the most permanent thing in your life and being yourself will attract the people you are seeking with time. Finding someone else can mean so many things, but it really comes down to focusing your energy into a few relationships that will really help you when you need it the most. Finding someone can also fall into the category of growing with an existing person and also a part of finding others is applying yourself in life and taking the first step to reach out.
Anonymous
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Apr 2, 2021
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You just have to trust yourself in a way that knowing there are plenty of fish in the sea, and one of them is for you. I understand right now it does seem hard, but you have to be patient and you have to know that it takes a lot of time. Yours will come eventually but you can't rush it, as it won't feel right if you’re not ready. Also, its all your decision, you'll know it's right because it'll feel right and thats what matters; not what other people think, or wat other people are doing, it should count for you.
Anonymous
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Apr 8, 2021
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How do you know you won't? 😉 Life is very unpredictable and surprising and I personally believe that along the way we will meet other people that can make us feel happy again. I think all loves are different and we can't compare them, but that doesn't mean that if you lose someone you will not find someone else. You can grief about the person you love so you get through it, acknowledge and accept your emotions, don't runaway from them because if you do, you won't heal. Have hope. Don't isolate yourself. And with time and an open heart someone special will show up in your life.
Anonymous
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Apr 22, 2021
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There are billions of people in this world therefore there is bound to be someone out there who is willing to be there for me and support me through my troubles. I have also experienced friendships and relationships that come and go, that is what life is all about, experiencing change. I know this means that new people will be brought into my life and love me for who I am. I can also say that I myself, am there for my friends and people who need someone so there must be other people who have this care and compassion.
Anonymous
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May 20, 2021
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Just because one relationship didn’t work it doesn’t mean there is no one for you, past relationships that didn’t work helps us to learn to grow to evolve to get ready to meet the right person and not everyone we meet it’s meant to stay forever each one of them has something to helps us to get ready, it might be discouraging at the beginning but take the positive with you cherries it, and the negative take it as a lesson, love your self the way you know you deserve it be happy with yourself there is someone for you probably going trough their own path thinking when will they meet the one as well!
SoftMoonlight000
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Jun 2, 2021
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(Everything I write is just personal experience and thoughts, you don't have to listen to it blindly)
Well, splitting with someone is very hard, especially if you've been with them a long time. It feels like there's a void in your life, and you feel incomplete without them.
Suddenly there's this feeling that you need someone to fill in that void, and you get anxious that you may never find someone.
Its a very rough patch to go through, its a feeling of genuine loss. This is the point where people tend to go for rebounds.
The way I overcome it is giving myself time. Of course it'll take time to heal that void, but your mind is more powerful than you think. The brain can adjust the neurons if you even lose a body part (Merzenich et. al., 1984). You may never stop loving them, but they'll no longer be a void you need to fill.
If you feel content with yourself and your independence, then you have a chance to look for a partner. In the case, you don't find someone, at least you'll be secure with yourself that it wouldn't fill you with dread.
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