How do I know I will find someone else?
165 Answers
Moderated by Anna Pavia, psicologa psicoterapeuta psychotherapist psychologist counselor
Updated: Jun 12, 2022
doubtfi
on
Aug 22, 2020
...read more
The truest answer is that you don't know, but don't worry about it. You are complete without the addition of another person, and it isn't essential to have someone despite what society may make it seem like. It is better to be alone than be with someone that makes you feel alone, and things will work out for you in a way you might not have imagined. If you do feel like there is no way to be happy without someone, just think about the population. There are over 7 billion people out there, and it is highly unlikely you won't find someone else.
Anonymous
on
Aug 30, 2020
...read more
You don't know but if you find yourself before, you'll find someone without even trying.
While in my teenage years, everyone around had a companion but I didn't and now I see why. I wasn't able to, I needed to find my wellbeing before, I went through terrible years of anxiety, and I couldn't focus on anything else's but keeping myself alive. It's been hard, because as I get older I have not achieve relationships milestones and I'm experiencing firsts times at an age that I should not be doing that. But I'm okay with it, I've grown to love myself and I can tell I am who I am because of what I've gone through.
Would I find someone else? I don't know, but now that I found myself I can focus on living and maybe someday we'll meet and I'll be ready, not worrying about keeping alive or just breathing, but how I like your company.
renavan
on
Sep 13, 2020
...read more
Assuming that this is about moving on/break ups. The world is filled with many individuals that perfectly fits your type. Do not over think about finding someone, the future has it set for you. There will always be someone for you who will make you the happiest and fit all your interests. I am no match maker, but I know that we have to let everything flow. Starting with a positive mindset will help you mentally then physically. Having the right mindset will lead you to see the world in a better view. Keep your head up my friend.
Anonymous
on
Sep 20, 2020
...read more
Love comes in several forms and shapes. You might want to rush into a relationship feeling like you are missing out. However, there will come a time when you will find someone you will really care about. You might start as being friends, classmates, and maybe even as co-workers. There will always be someone waiting for you in the future. Take it slowly, build yourself, emerge yourself in your hobby and interest. That certain someone will come naturally as you start to learn more about yourself and build yourself. Take it step by step. Who knows? maybe someone you will end up with is closer than you know.
lavpetals
on
Sep 20, 2020
...read more
You most definitely just work on yourself and you will eventually attract whatever you radiate. The more confident and radiant you are in yourself, and the more loving you are towards yourself, you will, in a way, manifest this energy into existence, particularly in the form of a human, haha! I don't want to seem like I'm trying too hard to be deep, but it just works that way. Sometimes you might attract a lot of loving people, or a perfect significant other, but in order to maintain a healthy relationship with them, you need to be completely satisfied and comfortable in your own skin.
Anonymous
on
Oct 17, 2020
...read more
there are over 7 billion people on this earth. someone out there other then them is going to feel romantic feelings for you. and sure, you may live in a small town, but you can always move away from it when youre older or even now. nothing is stopping you. nothing except yourself. you should try and get out there, step out of your comfort zone, youve got to do it at some point. and when you do, you’ll feel great because you’ll be able to make friends easier. can you imagine it? being an extrovert, with a lot of friends, being that one person who everyones got eyes for? that could be you.
Anonymous
on
Oct 19, 2020
...read more
I believe there is somebody out there for everybody. Through your life experiences and travels that life will take you through on this adventure you will run into so many different people all from different walks of life. The interactions and moments you share with other people will blossom sometimes into friendship and other times it will open up to much more then that. Give yourself the chance always approach it with an open mind and it will come to you. Allow yourself to freely converse and open up and you will be amazed in how life can play out and open up beautiful relationships.
friendshipkeeper
on
Nov 14, 2020
...read more
You won't know for sure until you do something about it. Either you live your life waiting for something to happen or you live making it happen. You got only one ticket to life. Make it spectacular!
If you are heartbroken right now, I feel ya. Been there, crushed my heart to the core. I know how it feels to lose someone. Sometimes, for our sake, we just have to let go and thank him or her for the memories shared with you.
Rebuild yourself from toxic relationships, learn from your mistakes, and continually grow as a person. Keep that hope in you. Eventually, you will meet "the one". If not, well you have done a terrific job doing a lot of wonderful things and living life as coolest as can be. WIn-Win!
bubblegumNarwhal3234
on
Jan 9, 2021
...read more
You don’t know, but you can hope to? Having someone isn’t always the best solution to the problem. You have to be happy and ok on your own. Never let anyone else be the source of your happiness, let them add to it and be your own happiness. The sooner you stop relying on someone else to make you feel worthy, the sooner you’ll realise how free you are to do as you please. Remember, everything happens for a reason, and one day you’ll understand why you’re going through everything you are. Just be patient and trust the process
SimplyyWaves
on
Feb 19, 2021
...read more
Because you will (:
There is never a pot without a lid in the world. You just have to find the right person! I know it may seem cliche but its true, love is a very weird thing, when two people mutually fit in, like a puzzle piece, and that makes love so bizarre. I know your worried about not finding anyone, but you will okay? I know you will. You got this, don´t stress so much about it, but keep an eye open for them. I wish you the best of luck and I know you will do well.
Talk to an expert therapist
In life, there will be stress and challenges that make it seem difficult to...
Talk to Ashley NowI still love my ex. Should I feel this way?
416 Answers
How long does it take to get over someone?
393 Answers
Why does breaking up hurt so much?
370 Answers
My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?
347 Answers
What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?
322 Answers
Should I tell my boyfriend that I cheated?
317 Answers