How do I know I will find someone else?
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Updated: Jun 12, 2022
wishmesky1975
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Nov 6, 2019
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You can never know about it. It just happens. It's a way of life. Especially in case of partners, you will always find a better partner than the last one. It's no magic, it's the experience and knowledge from the past which works to find you a better partner. Your sub-conscious mind is constant working to identity that better partner only in context to the previous ones. It doesn't necessarily mean that is the best possible someone you will ever find. It only gets better with time. Infact having to go through the process is a blessing in disguise. The pain is worth it.
Anonymous
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Nov 30, 2019
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There are a lot of fish in the sea, you just have to be patient. Sometimes you are in a relationship with someone and it isn't the person you will spend the rest of your life with, so patience is key when it comes to finding your other half. It takes more time for some people and for some it doesn't, but for now be happy with the people you know and that are around you. That person will come when you least expect it! You will be thankful and will also congratulate yourself for waiting. Good luck and keep being positive!
WrenSimon
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Apr 12, 2020
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The world is a big place filled with people with the capacity to love, and it certainly sounds like you have love to return. I understand how heartbreak can seem like the end of the world. I’ve recently experienced a breakup as well. But I find that staying focused on my own goals and passions puts me in environments where I’m bound to meet like-minded people who are in line with the type of lifestyle I’m striving for. It’s good to think of your ex as a lesson preparing you to be a better and more knowledgeable partner for your next love. Do you have any hobbies where you could potentially meet someone new?
Icanwaitforever
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Apr 24, 2020
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Well, of course you will find someone else. C'mon, the world is full of people! Even if you are shy, you will meet the right person for you.
And, actually, I think that everyone deserve the real love. You know, I'm talking about that love that makes you feel the best, that respect you, that makes you feel comfortable and free. If that doesn't happen, if you don't feel like that, plaese break up. Please go on seeking for your real love. Cause everyone has a soulmate in this world. You just have to find him/her. :)
Stay good
CourageousHeart1602
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May 7, 2020
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Truthfully, no one can know with absolute certainty that they will find someone but that is the thing about us humans. We find certainty and defy the odds even when things look bleak and the world tells us it is impossible. I am a cynic when it comes to romantic love but let me ask you this: How sure are you that you want a romantic partner? There are people who just want a platonic partner or none at all. They are all valid. So for you my love, you will find whom you're looking for but perhaps not in the way you expect. I believe in you
purplecitrus
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May 21, 2020
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I don't know if you have heard this theory/story but I will share it anyway. This is what made me believe that everyone has a soulmate, maybe it will help you too.
So, earlier, it was said that each 'person' was half man and half woman. Imagine like two bodies merged as one person.
This one time, God decided to cut the two apart and thus created man and woman. People, thus, now spend their lives subconsciously looking for that other part- their 'soulmate'; a person for every person.
There is one more thing which I believe.
So, when you break it off with someone, it is not the end of the world. We dont know what is in store for us in the future. Maybe we will meet again or maybe we will find a new, better person.
Don't be let down that you lost a person. There is someone out there. Dont you worry. The universe will work its magic.
Ran3707
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Jun 6, 2020
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Finding someone else is the same as finding a new friend. Then there is the romantic element in addition. So a smiling and positive attitude and interest in others are surely the keys to finding a new partner. The romantic element will soon follow if there is attraction. Fear of non-acceptance is not helpful, but tact and caution in selecting a new friend is okay. Not all new friends need to be found at the bar. It can be at the gym, the grocery, the volunteer center, at church, or pretty much anywhere else. Bad previous experiences are unfortunate history. Reliving them with someone new is probably not pleasant for them. Being open and honest with your new friend is certainly important.
TraceListens
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Jul 2, 2020
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As someone who has been through heartbreak more times than I care to think about, there will always be someone else.
Think about the times you've experienced before when you felt hopeless. Perhaps other relationships that haven't gone as you'd planned. You got past it, didn't you? You may have felt devastated and broken, but eventually, it got easier.
Try to think about why you feel you will never meet anyone else. Or, better, why you feel you need to meet someone else. Perhaps the break up has made you question your worthiness? Do you feel it was your fault? Do you not feel good enough to meet someone else?
You will meet someone else, guaranteed. Absolutely. But it is worth pondering why you feel it is important you do meet someone else. What is it that another person can give you that you can't give yourself?
JadharX303
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Jul 15, 2020
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It is natural to fear being left alone.
The power to meet others rests with me and my willingness to remain open to new experiences and new people. When I am ready, i will give myself permission to try to connect with others. I will give myself permission to make mistakes in those connections, learn from those mistakes, and to make better connections.
There are many people I've not yet found, but I will find some of them, when i am ready. Many of those people most likely feel like I feel - afraid they too will not find anyone else like them.
healingForest79
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Aug 9, 2020
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The question is not if you will find someone else, it's what will you do in the meantime to become the person they truly deserve. It is important to better yourself so that when your future love does come along, you are ready and mentally able to fulfill the relationship rather than clinging to what ifs.
Over many years we have been told there are plenty of fish in the sea, and what do you think is going to attract that special one? It is important to learn to be confident so your partner can have a level of security with you. It is important to learn patience, and taking the lessons from your previous relationship in order to better yourself.
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