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How do I get over wanting to contact my ex?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 8, 2015
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You can block his or her number and or start going out hanging with friends meeting new guys and or girls and enjoy yourself
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Anonymous on Dec 8, 2015
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In most cases, there's a reason why things didn't work out. You're both better off. The clue is to move on. It will get easier to forget about your ex with time. You've just gotta be patient.
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Anonymous on Dec 22, 2015
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You just think bad things about them. You totally change your routine and you change your route you go.
Profile: calmingKitty41
calmingKitty41 on Jan 12, 2016
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Block your ex on everything! Their number, facebook, instagram, tumblr, twitter, I mean everything. Go out with friends, pick up a hobby, try and better yourself. Keep yourself occupied. When you are ready to move on, start going on dates and meet new people.
Profile: smileforawhile
smileforawhile on Apr 25, 2016
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Wanting to contact ex is totally normal and to be expected as they were a big part of your life for a given amount of time. It takes time to heal and you have to allow yourself to feel emotions that may not exactly be the most pleasant. Distract yourself, keep yourself busy, do things for YOU.
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Anonymous on Jun 14, 2016
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Make new friends. Listen to music. Master a new skill. Try dating new people. Get a life. Love yourself.
Profile: Daviama99
Daviama99 on Jun 21, 2016
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Block them on any media, delete their number, any photos. Call a friend when you think of them and talk to them to get your mind off of them and focus on your friend.
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Anonymous on Aug 7, 2017
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Distract yourself with something you really like doing. For example, watch your favorite TV show or talk to your best friend about the latest news. However, it couldn't hurt to ask your ex how they're doing; it shows them that you have gotten over them but you still care about them in a friendly and polite way. But if you would rather not contact them, you can stick to baby steps - distracting yourself. Then you can surround yourself with people who care about you and have a fun time with them.
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ChooseHappiness1992 on Dec 5, 2017
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Always remember that sometimes we need to look for happiness in new relationship. There is simply no point of going back if he or she is not going to make any changes for the better.
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tranquilSerendipity on Jun 25, 2018
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Continually doing something good for yourself. This could be going to the gym, going on a walk around the neighborhood, putting on a face mask, getting your nails done. Taking care of yourself makes you feel good. Surrounding yourself with wonderful company, people that make you feel important are the best ones.
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