How do I get over wanting to contact my ex?
Anonymous
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Nov 16, 2014
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Well, concentrate on your life. Do things. Go out and have fun. Maybe find a new person. Just get your mind clear.
beautifulRecipe32
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Nov 19, 2014
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Blocking or removing their information from your timeline on social media helps. Or even having space from all social media altogether and focusing on yourself.
Anonymous
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Nov 20, 2014
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to move on, you need to not contact your ex...concentrate on other things that will make you a better person. Delete negative people from your life.
AaronListener
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Apr 23, 2015
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Think of why he is your ex. Think of why it didn't work out in the first place. Don't pu yourself through the emotions again. They wasn't worth it first time.
JOSHlovesyou
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Apr 25, 2015
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Its difficult to get over the urge to talk to this person. besides being a lover, your partner was also your friend. its up to the individual to come to terms with the breakup and realize that they are better off without that relationship. there is a reason it ended after all
Everyonedeservesavoice
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May 23, 2015
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You could try to delete their number or write a king list if all the negative characteristics your ex has and realise why you're not together
HonestBunny
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Jun 29, 2015
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It is never easy breaking up, you have become accustomed to having another person at your availability for everything and then it stops. Keeping busy can help you avoid contacting your ex and may take your mind off of them as you attempt to move on. Find a new hobby, volunteer, and focus on self as you transition to this new stage of life without your ex. Give yourself time as well as permission to talk it out when you feel like you want to contact them, so often we as people feel guilty about to still harboring feelings for a person when we know it’s over when in reality it’s very human of us. The pain of a breakup will be there for a while but accepting it and trying to move in a different direction can help you avoid the need to reach out.
Anonymous
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Aug 10, 2015
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Remember why they're your ex in the first place. Allow yourself to remember but not live in the past.
Anonymous
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Aug 25, 2015
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This want should fade over time. When you first breakup the common reaction tends to be wanting to stay in contact with someone and that is perfectly normal. When you have a good relationship with someone it is hard to break it off all of a sudden. With time this will get better and hopefully both of you will be able to move on with your life.
silverSoul66
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Nov 24, 2015
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Try to move on by concentrating on new hobbies or activities. Keeping yourself busy is one of the best ways to get over someone.
Anonymous
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Dec 8, 2015
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You can block his or her number and or start going out hanging with friends meeting new guys and or girls and enjoy yourself
Anonymous
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Dec 8, 2015
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In most cases, there's a reason why things didn't work out. You're both better off. The clue is to move on. It will get easier to forget about your ex with time. You've just gotta be patient.
Anonymous
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Dec 22, 2015
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You just think bad things about them. You totally change your routine and you change your route you go.
calmingKitty41
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Jan 12, 2016
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Block your ex on everything! Their number, facebook, instagram, tumblr, twitter, I mean everything. Go out with friends, pick up a hobby, try and better yourself. Keep yourself occupied. When you are ready to move on, start going on dates and meet new people.
smileforawhile
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Apr 25, 2016
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Wanting to contact ex is totally normal and to be expected as they were a big part of your life for a given amount of time. It takes time to heal and you have to allow yourself to feel emotions that may not exactly be the most pleasant. Distract yourself, keep yourself busy, do things for YOU.
Anonymous
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Jun 14, 2016
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Make new friends. Listen to music. Master a new skill. Try dating new people. Get a life. Love yourself.
Daviama99
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Jun 21, 2016
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Block them on any media, delete their number, any photos. Call a friend when you think of them and talk to them to get your mind off of them and focus on your friend.
Anonymous
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Aug 7, 2017
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Distract yourself with something you really like doing. For example, watch your favorite TV show or talk to your best friend about the latest news. However, it couldn't hurt to ask your ex how they're doing; it shows them that you have gotten over them but you still care about them in a friendly and polite way. But if you would rather not contact them, you can stick to baby steps - distracting yourself. Then you can surround yourself with people who care about you and have a fun time with them.
ChooseHappiness1992
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Dec 5, 2017
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Always remember that sometimes we need to look for happiness in new relationship. There is simply no point of going back if he or she is not going to make any changes for the better.
tranquilSerendipity
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Jun 25, 2018
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Continually doing something good for yourself. This could be going to the gym, going on a walk around the neighborhood, putting on a face mask, getting your nails done. Taking care of yourself makes you feel good. Surrounding yourself with wonderful company, people that make you feel important are the best ones.
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