How can you unlove someone?
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Moderated by Maria Wasielewski, Master of Arts in Counseling and Guidance, University of Arizona
Updated: Jun 10, 2022
Anonymous
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May 5, 2016
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By falling in love with oneself, by promising our inner conscience that we will not remember the person anymore,by remembering that person's mistakes.
Anonymous
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May 6, 2016
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I don't think you ever can. They will always be a part of you. The only thing you can do is try to make that piece become smaller
Sassy001
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May 8, 2016
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I don't think you can just unlove someone.You can't help the way you feel.Feelings aren't right or wrong,they just are.You can still love someone and not have them in your life though if they are wrong for you,cause you pain or problems.
Anonymous
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May 12, 2016
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you cant, just remember when you did and try to remember the good things it is easier to move on that way
Anonymous
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May 13, 2016
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I guess you can't really "unlove" someone. It's just how you move on. When you love someone, a little part of them is still going to remain in your heart. But being able to love someone else and accepting the fact that you guys were once together and now aren't is the big step to moving on.
usefulPower63
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May 13, 2016
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Unloving someone is not a possible thing. Holding will not help you. Forgive and accept the fact that it's gone.people change. Forget and forgive
Anonymous
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May 14, 2016
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It's not so much about unloving someone as it is redefining the relationship so it's suitable for you. If the relationship is abusive then it might change from dependant to see every now and again or don't see at all. I'm unsure how to make the feeling go away, so instead I accept it and find a place in my heart for it.
blueskysmile777
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May 18, 2016
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If you really truly love somebody, I don't thinks it's possible to 'unlove' them. If there is a particular reason for a sudden want and need to detach your feelings from a specific person, I would say that it's because this person has either done something that has caused you upset, or made an exit from your life; in which case, I urge you to ask yourself if you truly ever loved them, or just felt a momentary strong connection with them, and possibly a dependence on the good they once fed you.
Ilianna12878
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May 18, 2016
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Love doesn't have a cure when you love someone that's it there's no going back but there is a getting over. Love is powerful but some people don't really know what love is.
Anonymous
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May 19, 2016
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Unloving someone, if you are really determined could be possible. Time is a good factor in unloving someone. The more time stretches, the more you will forget the person. But to forget them, you have to change your mindset. Changing our mindset doesn't mean hating them. It's about acceptance. Acceptance of the fact that we are not in control of such things as love. Make it your principle not to invest emotions or stop investing emotions to things that we have no power to control., such as the other person's heart.
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