How can you unlove someone?
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Updated: Jun 10, 2022
goldenHeart58
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Apr 23, 2016
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I am not sure you can un-love someone totally; but time really does heal and even though its hard; you can learn to move on without them. Talking about your loss and pain will help you and help you realise that it takes two to cause relationship problems. Admit what you did wrong as well as what they did. Try not to feel bitter as that creates anger and sadness. Try to keep doing things that you enjoy and seeing friends etc Carry on as normal if you can! The feeling will pass.
Anonymous
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Apr 23, 2016
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You simply can't unlove someone you´ve loved. But you can let them go and at some point they won't be on your mind as much.
picturesque03afterthought
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Apr 24, 2016
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I am sorry to say this, but you cannot unlove someone. Once you have feelings for someone, even if it's as friends or more than that...they'll always be there. but the best thing you can do is to embrace those feelings and move on ( Don't suppress those feelings, because the weird things about feelings is that the more you suppress them, the more vigorously they attack back ) Love yourself more and know that there is something much better waiting for you (I know it's hard to believe that at times) Not all battles are worth fighting for, right?
shibainu
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Apr 24, 2016
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You can never unlove someone. I think if you love someone, they'll stay in your heart for the rest of your life. I think it doesn't lessen but you just outgrow it.
InspirationalListener99
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Apr 25, 2016
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Love is a strong feeling. Over time you will lose love for someone. And you will move on and find someone that makes you happy
booklover1224
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Apr 27, 2016
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There is no way to fully "unlove" someone. As annoying as it can be to wait, time is one of the best cures for a broken heart.
Amber105
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Apr 28, 2016
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It's almost impossible to un-love someone because you gave them your time, your love, and your life.
Anonymous
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Apr 29, 2016
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From my personal experience, i would say, first of all you need to replace this person with someone else.
JK8287
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Apr 29, 2016
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Love is your very nature, you can't control it, it controls you, as much as our limited mind doesn't like that at times. That being said, there are some new age processes to let go of old loves, like cord-cutting, that can be immensely helpful in moving on when its no longer appropriate to be thinking about someone all the time, when it doesn't serve you, or them.
KawaiiCandy
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May 5, 2016
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It's hard to unlove people. Especially if they have been a part of your life for a very long time. What you should do is forgive. Forgiveness solves a lot of problems.
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