How can you unlove someone?
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Updated: Jun 10, 2022
Anonymous
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Jun 10, 2022
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Hey, hate to burst your bubble, but unloving someone isn't physically possible. That person will always hold a special place in your heart, but to be honest, you can't get rid of them that easily.
Instead, embrace this statement:
"I love them. They hold a special place in my heart, whether they know or not. I may not like it, but I care about them. Whether they like it or not, they are special to me, and that won't change."
So, all in all, unloving someone isn't possible, but you can still care about them. Love doesn't go away that easily!
Take care!
LovebyChristina
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Jul 27, 2015
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Time and space have always helped me in the past. Both allow your mind to remember and learn what is like to be without that person. As time goes on, it's easier to remember the inner strength you as an individual have on your own
caringHoliday43
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Mar 28, 2016
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unloving someone you've loved before can happen when that person hurt you so bad that you can't go on
Anonymous
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Mar 29, 2016
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Time is the only way to truly get over a feeling as strong as love. For some, love may take months to fully get over. Just take your time until you feel like you've moved on.
conscientiousBirch9806
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Apr 6, 2016
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Yes, it's possible to unlove someone. The power to unlove is in your hands, you just have to choose it everyday, and a time will come you will no longer feel the pain. I found a guide on the net on how to unlove someone: http://crappypoetist.com/2016/04/06/finally-a-way-to-unlove-someone/ Hope this helps.
Aemelliah
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Apr 13, 2016
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you can not unlove someone.you can only love someone else more...either that someone is you or another soul
thaedeus93
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Apr 15, 2016
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there's no one to "unlove" someone,if you care bout someone ,you care for whole life!!! never hate!!
Anonymous
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Apr 16, 2016
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On my opinion, you can never unlove someone you truly loved ince. You just learn to love them less, but in the end you would still care about the. You may not loce them the same way as before but you would love them differently. Like as a frind or as family.
Hazikk
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Apr 21, 2016
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With time you will be able to detach yourself from this person , feelings will fade away eventually.
creativeSunshine46
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Apr 22, 2016
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You can't, love is a deep emotional feeling and you can't remove it, you might hate someone but when there's hate, there's also love
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