How can you unlove someone?
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Moderated by Maria Wasielewski, Master of Arts in Counseling and Guidance, University of Arizona
Updated: Jun 10, 2022
Anonymous
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Mar 14, 2018
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Tough one... When you start to remember good things you do together, think of bad ones. Relate inside jokes with bad times OR use the same inside jokes with a different friend who you do love currently!
Anonymous
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Mar 7, 2016
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I don't think you ever fall out of love with someone. However you find a way to move on. There is a big difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. Loving someone is a choice, whereas being in love is not.
Anonymous
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May 5, 2016
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If they hurt you or cause you great amounts of pain but I don't believe you can ever truly unlove somebody. Once there in your heart it is very hard to remove them whether you want too or not. The best thing I can say is really ask yourself why you feel the need to unlove this person.
Anonymous
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Jun 4, 2016
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Unlove someone? its impossible to unlove someone that already become part of your life, the one that always in your mind and your heart. Even you want to stop thinking about him by keeping yourself busy with things but every time you pause, you will still think of him. When talk about love, its unexpected to fall in love with someone, but being in love with him is something that couldn't stop if you tried your best to unlove him. Its is because you already opening you heart, mind and soul to to someone, letting him into your spirits, thought, hopes, fears, future, dreams and its like being naked to him. Just love yourself even more because you are someone full with love and appreciate and thankful of the good memories that he gave you but dont feeling hard about cant unlove him even after he hurt you. Just follow the flow and lets thing happen.
Greatlistener1357
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Apr 7, 2018
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You can't unlove someone. Your feelings can fade away. Maybe try forgetting about them. Hang out with people who dont remind you of them, dont think of them, do things for yourself. Go out and enjoy your self. Accept the pain, give yourself time and most importantly focus on yourself.
Anonymous
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Jun 6, 2015
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Only with time and effort can you do your best to unlove. It takes commitment to find someones flaws.
Anonymous
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Jul 14, 2015
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Sometimes you cannot unlove someone. It takes a while to get over a past love and it is important to learn how to grow on your own.
Stillhappyy
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Apr 28, 2016
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Open your heart. Press back up all family members and friends. Then press reset. Congratss you have a brand new heart!!!
Anonymous
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Jun 10, 2016
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I don't believe you can "unlove" someone. The best thing to do is to truly love and let go, in the words of Barney "catch and release".
Anonymous
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Sep 25, 2016
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Try to think about their negative parts. Try to avoid thinking of them try to be busy in spite of thinking about her
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