How can you unlove someone?
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Moderated by Maria Wasielewski, Master of Arts in Counseling and Guidance, University of Arizona
Updated: Jun 10, 2022
Anonymous
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Jul 19, 2018
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Personally I don't think there's sure a thing as unloving someone you can love them less but even if it someone you hate there's still going to be some small form of love depending on the connection
Allears247
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Jul 25, 2018
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Personally i do not think it is possible. Love can fade, but do not believe that real love can competency disappear. Either it diminishes or turns into hate.
Anonymous
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Jul 25, 2018
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From experience, time heals a lot of stuff.. you may not be able to unlove the person but you can at least accept how you felt and move on from it
SettingSun1985
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Jul 25, 2018
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It's not possible to unlove someone but it is possible to take your mind off this person so that your feelings will Mayberry die down. The best thing to do is switch your mindset- try something new, do things you love, work on a project, etc.
shiningGrace80
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Aug 1, 2018
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You can't really unlove someone. All you can do is move on by distancing yourself from that person and his/her memories. You have to stay pretty strong for that. This way you can find someone new.
Anonymous
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Aug 1, 2018
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Well first, it might take a while to do it. Loving someone is such a wonderful and crazy experience, so to unlove someone, can be just as crazy. I'd say distance yourself, maybe distract yourself from them, to clear your mind. Talk to other people. I'm sure in no time you'll feel better about this person, hope all is well, and all goes well!
MidnightRaven999
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Aug 7, 2018
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Honestly, in my personal opinion, you cant just force yourself to stop loving someone, however there are certain things you can do to try and make it stop, like not talking to them or seeing them, basically not having them be a part of your life anymore, and eventually your feelings for them will fade.
EmpatheticEars94
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Aug 10, 2018
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Love is a complex and abstract term and emotional state that can be influenced by so many factors. To unlove someone is when your values and ideas that are attached to love is violated, broken or tarnished by someone you felt that you loved. This may lead you to denounce what you feel and see is love towards that person.
CallmeBabe
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Aug 11, 2018
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I don't believe that You can unlove someone, but I do think you can take them from being a priority to being just a random person in your life, I do think that getting to know new people helps, find someone else maybe a friend or a family member, make talking to them every day a priority. just replace the person that you are trying to unlove.
plantbudd
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Aug 15, 2018
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There is no one way of going about moving on, and it can be very hard, but distancing yourself from them and memories can be very helpful
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