How can you unlove someone?
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Moderated by Maria Wasielewski, Master of Arts in Counseling and Guidance, University of Arizona
Updated: Jun 10, 2022
Anonymous
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Jun 3, 2018
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You never unlove someone if you truly loved them to begin with. We are quick to deny our feelings but the sooner we face it the faster it is to get passed it.
Anonymous
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Jun 8, 2018
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There is really no sudden button to stop loving someone: It takes time-- a lot of it sometimes. Cut the things out of your life that remind you of that person, be it photographs or their favorite music. Having it around will only have healing take longer.
Innerpeace2u
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Jun 13, 2018
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Find the unsolvable problems between us and agree to cut off the relationship for its best course. Nothing personal but reflective on the growth from this nonfunctional relationship. Understand what I want for myself and what I can offer at best. Set boundary to protect myself and other.
Anonymous
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Jun 15, 2018
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How can you Unlove someone? Well it according what that person did to you. If this person was mean or just not appreciative of you and it’s easier to unlove them. If this person meant something to you and you left on good terms then nothing wrong with still having love for that person that person will always hold a place in your heart!
niceRabbit18
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Jun 28, 2018
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If someone gets to a stage when they become unbearably toxic, or harmful to YOU emotionally/mentally/physically-- that's when I typically stop giving my love to them. Remember: you can't save everyone. If someone is making you feel terrible, it's not your job to make them feel whole.
Mayonnais
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Jun 30, 2018
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You don't . however time always heals the wound , just give yourself time to heal and fill your time with positive activities like learning a new skill you always wanted to learn or workout in the gym .
Anonymous
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Jul 13, 2018
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To unlove somebody is a hard, but possible thing. If this person has hurt you to the point where you need to unlove them then you should really accept it. It's okay if you thought you loved this person but you don't. It can happen to anybody. It's okay to unlove somebody. Just take some deep breaths take the love that you gave that person out of your brain and let it float out.
Anonymous
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Jul 13, 2018
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Simple answer is you can't. Love is a strong feeling that takes a while to even appear and once it does many people even believe they have never stopped loving their first love. Usually you just have to find someone else whom you love more than this other person you used to love in order to unlove someone.
StWilson
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Jul 14, 2018
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The real question is can you forget memories, Yes we can as long as we don't think about it. Time is the best healer and i will change how you loved someone for what they didn't deserve.
Anonymous
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Jul 15, 2018
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I feel that it is impossible to i love someone but we can forget them from our minds to some extent
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