How can you unlove someone?
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Anonymous
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Apr 24, 2016
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This question could be brought into different view . for a starter you don't have to ever unlove someone because love is a positive feeling and it is good to have it toward everyone. Give love with no expectation to receive something in return give love because it is the essence of this life. But if the question was in the context of getting over someone as in a lover or crush it would be by developing a realistic/positive/full of energy and hope . how is that achieved to understand when something is meant to be it will happen no matter what . and sometimes certain things don't lay in our control and here comes the art of letting go. Afterwards a mentality of hope and energy and desire to lead a life full of energy and love. Basically to alive as much as possible.
Daisy1579
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Oct 2, 2016
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Always remember that if someone choose for second option, it's always good to go with second option, because if someone really love somebody, they wouldn't go for another. If love is there, its always there, if isn't then try not waste time to repeat the mistake. People just feel stuck in a relationship, they don't know what they can pursue once they are out of it and how much they can value oneself and enjoy life. Life is once for all, try not to waste on someone who doesn't deserve you. There is always someone out there for you, you just have to find close. Hope this makes some sense. Good luck! Be happy and stay positive always. Don't give anyone a change to belittle you or to play with your emotions, be strong and show them that you are above them. Cheers!!
intenselyCourageous
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Dec 4, 2014
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You can't unlove someone, but you can just include that someone to your prayers. It'll even lighten up your feelings!
intelligentLove16
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Dec 26, 2014
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Time is the key. If you can, try to avoid this person. I know it's going to hurt at first, but there is no over way to get over someone. Try to distract yourself. Read a book, watch a movie, go jogging. It really does help.
Hyachin
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Apr 24, 2015
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You can't unlove someone. Love come and go in the most unexpected way. The best thing you can do is to treasure that love until a bigger love comes in your way.
Brittneym101
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Aug 3, 2015
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It is possible to unlove someone, but it doesn't happen overnight especially if you truly loved/love this person. You just have to give yourself time. Time may not work for everyone and you may not get to where you want to be with this issue at all. You may go on loving this person for the rest of your life. If your heart still loves and wants this person then it will be even harder to be rid of the love that you have for he/she. If your heart's nor ready to stop loving someone then you won't stop loving them. This feeling has to take place on it's own.
smileforawhile
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Dec 7, 2014
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I don't really think you can unlove someone. If you truly love someone, you're always going to unless that person does something to change the way that you feel about them.
Chokeli
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May 14, 2015
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You can not. You can move on though. The heart always finds a way to heal. You gotta give it time. just keep trying. It always works.
psych9076
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May 25, 2018
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you can't exactly unloved someone. you love them you love them. but here is the thing, if you truly love someone, you will respect them, if they reject you or push you away, you will respect their choice, because In true love, you want the other person to be happy. and believe me, I am saying from personal experience, if that person loves you back, they will come back to you
GorgeousMess88
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Apr 14, 2016
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You never unlove someone you just get tired of the way they treat you and you just have to know your worth.
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