How can you unlove someone?
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Updated: Jun 10, 2022
colourfulwriter54
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Nov 21, 2017
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By focusing on loving myself. I've been missing out on my needs when I needed that person to take care of them while they were away. learning self love is the first step to pick yourself up and move forward
Anonymous
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Nov 23, 2017
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If you are asking how to unlove somebody, you clearly don't want to love that person. Ask yourself, do I really deserve to be in love with that person?
GreatChance
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Dec 2, 2017
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The first thing you have to realise is that love needs to be reciprocated, otherwise it is not real love. To "unlove" someone, you need to stop contact with them (until you feel you can better manage your feelings) and wait for time to pass. Try to develop yourself, learn something new, become better in the meantime.
cuddlyDay48
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Dec 8, 2017
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Just remember how you got hurt and avoid overthinking missing and get rid of the stimulating memories
charmingShoulder
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Dec 13, 2017
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I think you can never unlove someone. You can heal youself as time as by, and with a good support system. Its like the more you try to unlove someone, they more you love that person. I would say its better to just forgive and forget them,
Anonymous
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Dec 13, 2017
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You can't undo the past. Accept the love you can't let go of and let it guide you through new experiences.
Anonymous
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Dec 28, 2017
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You cannot unlove someone. However, you can get over someone. I recommend spending time improving yourself, doing things to make you happy. Having time out with friends. Instead of dwelling on someone else and doing nothing. Distraction is key, allow yourself to let go.
Anonymous
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Dec 28, 2017
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You can never unlove someone, and when asking this it might mean you can never unlove them, an ex will always be on your mind whether its on the back or right there on the edge, they will be there; and it wont be easy moving on cause each person is different. The best thing to do when trying to move on is accept that they have a piece of your heart, but that there is a better person waiting for you to find them.
YouRenoughlove
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Jan 3, 2018
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Falling in love can be easy but falling out of it can be a slippery slope. The first step would be to realize that you are still yourself without them. That you are still whole even though it feels differently. Going on from there get support from friends or family members. Don’t dwell on the past but look forward to the future ☺ï¸
Littlespaceollie
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Jan 3, 2018
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If it is really Love, you can never fully "unlove" them. However, you can try to not dwell on the person and distract yourself with different activities. You can distract yourself from the person. After time you will not feel as attached to the person, still love them? Yes, but nobody can ever fully "unlove" someone.
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