How can you unlove someone?
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Updated: Jun 10, 2022
Anonymous
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Jun 29, 2016
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I don't believe that you can ever truly unlove someone. More of a just putting them in the back of your mind and trying not to think about them. Love is a strong emotion that can't really be undone. If you say you love someone and seem to stop, perhaps you never really loved them in the first place.
Y0LANDAH
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Jun 29, 2016
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Acknowledging one's self and working through areas of your life you've set. The clearer you begin to understand and know yourself the better it is to understand why someone may not have fit right. The best come in the midst of the wait of patience.
Anonymous
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Jul 1, 2016
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Unloving takes time, and isn't easy at all. It's hard, very hard, but in the end, it'll be fine. You can get through this. :)
piag860517
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Jul 1, 2016
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impossible, your feelings for that person may change but if you used to loved someone for reall you are always going to love one...just different. Stay away of that someone...first step...very far...and in a couple of months you will see that you love that somoeone but in a differente way...but remember that memories dont vanish...just keep the good ones to the future, try not to think about them now...becuase..well is not healthy for you...when ever you are recover for your breakup or whaterver, this memories are going to appear again..and you will smile...
Remina
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Jul 5, 2016
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That's a hard question to answer because it really is hard to stop loving someone. I don't know if that is even possible. But it is possible to slowly begin to move on. The answer though is time. It takes time ot begin to stop loving someone. You would benefit from looking at the Break Up Advice guide under self help guides. you can find that by going Path > Self-help guides
ColdWinterNights
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Sep 9, 2016
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Know that they aren't the person you fell in love with in the beginning. Cherish your memories, but know that memories are all they will be, and that moving on is the healthiest thing to do.
Anonymous
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Sep 9, 2016
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Unloving someone simply does not happen. You may lose an attraction towards them but can we really stop loving someone? If it's a true and honest love, it cannot be lost. When you leave the person whom you thought you loved, it may feel after a while like you don't love them, but those feelings can easily be resurfaced. A true love can never be stopped and the love you once felt for a person can only be hidden and buried, not stopped.
Anonymous
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Sep 10, 2016
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unloving someone is a hard thing to do try and think about something else or try to take your mind of them
Sunflower20
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Sep 10, 2016
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You can't stop loving someone. Love is a feeling that never fades away. You may be angry at someone for something that they did to you but if you really love them that feeling will never go away.
Anonymous
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Sep 16, 2016
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I don't think its easy to unlove anybody for its what the heat wants. If it is neccecary just try to engage yourself fin things a lot so you are distracted and eventually it will happen.
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