How can you unlove someone?
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Moderated by Maria Wasielewski, Master of Arts in Counseling and Guidance, University of Arizona
Updated: Jun 10, 2022
Juzzy
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Jun 4, 2016
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You cant "Unlove" Someone, but the heart does heal and in time can learn to love others again and even to love yourself as a person
Bearhugs1
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Jun 5, 2016
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You can't. There's no remote button for feelings. I wish there was sometimes, though. But, you could possibly do it by using distractions.
Mikatsu104
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Jun 8, 2016
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You can't really unlove someone. Your best way to stop having feelings for them is to break up all connections for a while, and go out and have fun with friends to get that person off your mind.
Leon92
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Jun 8, 2016
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There is no such thing as an action plan to stop loving someone. Allow yourself to take some time to get over this brokenhearted feelings. Even though it might not feel like it, in time you will be able to experience joy and happiness again. Stay strong!
Anonymous
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Jun 9, 2016
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Unlove someone? What is love, maybe it's just a sympathy? Well this question is hard to answer, maybe to find a better person than whoever was before.
Anonymous
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Jun 11, 2016
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It's hard to answer this question as it's dependent on what type of love it is. However, if it is a romantic type of love. I think you should find a hobby to distract you. Talk to your friends or confidants.
I think just as you can find a temporary job. You can find a temporary replacement to the person you love. If the relationship progresses to a permanent role as spouse... it might be good for you. If not...you can enjoy the single lane :D
YellowDaydream
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Jun 12, 2016
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You cannot. At least I personally cannot. But what you can do is move on from them. If you want to "unlove" them, there must be some reason behind it. Use this reason to gradually convince yourself you can live without them and live well :)
Gladdy
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Jun 15, 2016
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The time when you unloved someone is when you have a greater capacity to love, that you knew that you love them but have to let them go, not because of our own needs and reasons to keep them. But to know genuinely that they deserve better, that we deserve better as well. Love is given without asking for anything back, that is why we sacrifice ourself for the person, because we love them.
brilliantRiver83
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Jun 18, 2016
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Love yourself more than they could ever love you. Don't hate them. Hate takes energy and passion and time. Simply evict them from your mind. Distract yourself. Become your own hero. Value your heart more than you value theirs
JackSkel
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Jun 24, 2016
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Falling out of love cannot be forced. It takes time. The best you can do is wait. Sometimes, finding someone to take their spot can speed up the wait time.
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