How can you unlove someone?
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Updated: Jun 10, 2022
coldasSugar5616
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Jun 1, 2016
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One does not "Unlove" another person. Love is unconditional. Being IN love, however, can be healed and reduced only with time. Love is a confusing, but beautiful thing.
SimplyRose1234
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Jun 2, 2016
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you cant, your heart cant be controlled. but you can spend more time with other people just to forget that person.
sinatralover
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Jun 2, 2016
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Think about the wrongs they did you, and that you wouldn't want to experience them again. Know your worth.
Anonymous
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Jun 3, 2016
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I want to start out by addressing the word 'love' itself. Love means a million different things to a million different people. Based on personal experience, I don't think it is possible to un-love someone. Love is a feeling so unfathomably deep that we cannot just make ourselves un-love someone. Especially if that person has had any sort of significant impact on our lives. It IS possible, however, that we can move on from any negative relations we had with the person we love. For example, if the relationship is/was very toxic to be in, we can move ourselves out of that situation by leaving. Much easier said than done, but it is possible. We can still feel and have love for that person, but we are moving on from any negative circumstances and freeing ourselves from whatever was causing unhappiness. Before I get off topic, I will wrap it up. Un-loving someone isn't something we can force ourselves to do, but removing ourselves from damaging situations is always an option. Hope I helped!
serenekindness66
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Jun 3, 2016
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Let a lot of time go by and fill your life with lots of happiness, activities, friends and accomplishments.
Sindi00
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Jun 3, 2016
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I think that is impossible to unlove someone, or maybe it is not the right thing to ask from yourself, the best is to let go, look forward and very sudden u will find something or someone else to love. We are human beings we are made of love to love. The biggest and the greatest love that anyone should have is love for the life. Embrace every moment and save every second of memorie that is the right way where everyone should pass on
Anonymous
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Jun 3, 2016
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I don't think you can ever truly unlove someone because once you have loved someone a small part of your heart will always be theirs. I think you need to give yourself time to change how you feel about them but always remembering that they will be apart of you. They are part of your past and you just need to keep living your best life without them.
biancaj
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Jun 3, 2016
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If you are truly in love with someone unloving them is near impossible, it will defiantly get a lot easier over time but to completely un love them I personally don't believe you can't. The heart wants what the heart wants.
Cherishlife20
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Jun 3, 2016
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Love doesn't vanish in the matter of seconds. ItS a long process and if the love is so solid or if you're not ready to let go it might not happen. But the best way to prevent yourself from more pain is by letting it go because since you've been holding on you know it hurts alot.
Anonymous
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Jun 4, 2016
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Falling in love is easy. Falling out of love can be treachery. Most often it takes twice as long to fall out of love then how long you were mutual in love. 6 months could take 1 year to get over. From my experience the best way to fall out of love is to fall in love. Not with another being, but with your self, your dreams, your hobbies, and your path. To unlove may take time, but it shouldn't be rushed you must be patient with your heart. Because trying to force yourself to fall out of love will simply make you think more and more about how you were in love. It's best to free your mind of the past, not to forget your memories, but to create new ones!
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