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How can you tell that you have really moved on?

Profile: uniquecreature41
uniquecreature41 on Nov 18, 2016
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They won't be the first thing you think about when you wake up, they won't occupy your mind for more than a couple of minutes a day, not every damn thing you see or hear or look at or watch will remind you of them in some horrible way! Here's the thing about getting over someone; you often don't know it's happened. It's quite possible to feel awful for months and months and then find one day that strangely, you don't.....pinpointing that moment when you're over them can be quite difficult but when you're living your life and getting on with your own thing, it's highly likely you're over the other side of the mountain.
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Profile: quastinephoenix123
quastinephoenix123 on Dec 4, 2016
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You don't think/pay heed to the past experience anymore, you feel like you can finally focus on other things.
Profile: magicallyRainfall14
magicallyRainfall14 on Jan 6, 2017
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You can tell when you've finally moved on when you wake up and your thoughts have changed. When you are no longer obsessing over that one person. When you begin to find happiness in new things as well as things you did before. When the memories are faded into the background instead of the memories always being in the spotlight.
Profile: 7thguyfromearth
7thguyfromearth on Feb 1, 2017
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You're happy. And most of all, you're not dwelling on the past, and you've completely understood the events that happened in it.
Profile: AshmeSR
AshmeSR on Mar 23, 2017
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I think a good way could be to understand our emotional conflict about the thing/person/situation we want to move on from. If we still feel emotionally invested and go through highs and low affecting our perception and our thought process then it could mean that we still have some emotions that we need to accept and work with. If we have reached a state where we are able to keep our calm and balance then it could suggest a good progress path
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 30, 2017
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For me, it's when I see the person with someone else either being happy or sad and just smile and bit and walk past them without hampering my business..and feeling better just to walk past them without looking back
Profile: MissyR70
MissyR70 on Apr 8, 2017
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You have really moved on when you can actually see yourself being with another person. Also when you no longer feel anger or pain when you think about your past relationship.
Profile: zealousEnergy88
zealousEnergy88 on May 7, 2017
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You can tell when you have moved on when that person does not consume your thoughts, you don't think of them everytime you come in contact with something or where you share together
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 9, 2017
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You won't be thinking about your ex partner anymore, you won't be checking up on them on how there doing. You will be focused on your own life, you won't have a worry what your partner is doing anymore and you'll have new beginnings and in your own time when you're ready, you could find a new partner.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 15, 2017
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When you don't think about them every time something happens in your life, good or bad. When you no long try and reach out or check to see what's on their social media profiles.
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