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How can I tell my boyfriend how I feel about him?

Profile: EllaLoves
EllaLoves on Feb 17, 2016
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I think this is a very personal and an individual question. It depends on what you need to tell him, sometimes I advise you talk to people you know, friends, family and of course people here at 7cups who can help you reach out to your boyfriend in whatever way you need.
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Profile: luminousPainting36
luminousPainting36 on Feb 17, 2016
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just be honest express yourself in whichever way you feel true to you with words or actions do it in the way that you feel truest to yourself.
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Just be honest with him, take your time and go for it. Honesty is always best. I know isn't easy but you can do it.
Profile: Zoe17
Zoe17 on Feb 17, 2016
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Go into the conversation with the intention of telling him how you feel about him, articulate your feelings in a way that clearly expresses that intention (doesn't have to be through words necessarily), and hold space for him to reciprocate how he feels openly and honestly
Profile: shvrry
shvrry on Feb 18, 2016
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Go on a date with him, and then open up to him. Always let him know how you feel about him. If you love him a lot, always show it to him and express it to him in any way you can find. If you don't love him anymore, just be honest but nice about it. Remember that if you don't want to be with someone, don't force yourself to do so. Do what you know is right for you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 21, 2016
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If you love him, you won't have difficulty telling him. We can tell them in so many different ways, Its all up to you how you want to tell him.
Profile: Chinup221
Chinup221 on Feb 24, 2016
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This is a hard question especially since I don't know how you feel about him. But to be honest just tell him how you feel. He will either understand or he won't. You never know.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 24, 2016
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Depending on your relationship. If it's a long one. Take time to explain to him, don't give him the usual 'it's not you its me'. It's better to be honest and tell him no rather than leading him on for nothing. Take care and good luck :)
Profile: Unicornsparkles94
Unicornsparkles94 on Feb 25, 2016
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Don't hesitate, think though about exactly how you are feeling, don't hold back keep calm and tell him what you need to say. Don't fear what his reply may be, just talk anything with a pinch of salt :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 25, 2016
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If you and your boyfriend really love eachother, there shouldn't be any problems with talking to eachother. Just ask him to sit down and that you want to have a chat with him. If it's not too bad, you can tell him that he shouldn't worry. Just try to keep it a calm and respectful conversation. If you really cannot do it, you could message him saying you need to talk the next time you see him, and if that's okay.
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Anonymous on Feb 25, 2016
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well you should take him out for a coffee and discuss genral things when ever you feel he is enjoying the conversation just give him a hint about your feelings
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Anonymous on Feb 27, 2016
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It is very, very hard for me to express my true feelings, or rather, negative feelings to my boyfriend. I am aware that this is an issue of me. I've been trying to work out my courage to tell him.
Profile: Freebird11
Freebird11 on Feb 28, 2016
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Be sincere, be receptive, ask him to be consider your feelings. It's not always easy being honest, but sometimes the best way is start with facing yourself and making sure you are expressing the truths of your own heart and mind.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 2, 2016
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Staying true to yourself and being honest to both of you shows a lot of respect and that you genuinely care.
Profile: Ardo
Ardo on Mar 2, 2016
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Just be honest and upfront tell your boyfriend that you want to speak to him privately and do not hold anything back, but also listen to what he has to say,
Profile: LoveandNotHate1997
LoveandNotHate1997 on Mar 3, 2016
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Telling him how you feel can be hard sometimes, but there are moments where you have to say those things to him but in a kind and approachable manner.
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Anonymous on Mar 6, 2016
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You could give him little gifts, homemade collages, write small poems, give him handwritten love notes... also, just plain telling him is wonderful too.
Profile: LiveInvictus
LiveInvictus on Mar 9, 2016
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Honesty is key. If you are in love with him, telling him is the best thing you can hope for. If you are worried that he might not feel the same way, then maybe choose a time when you can discuss it. Like when he says something funny in the car, tell him like you mean it. This can open a conversation about how you feel. It could be that he doesn't know how he feels, and this could be really helpful. Best case, you no longer have to hide how you feel. Worst case you have a conversation about feelings. Honesty is truly the best option, but be ready for truth back.
Profile: glisteningLynx61
glisteningLynx61 on Mar 9, 2016
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Openly let him know , really in a relationship it is key to at least feel okay with being open to your lover when it comes to how you feel good or bad :)!
Profile: Vrity26
Vrity26 on Mar 10, 2016
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Love is a very beautiful feeling and it comes to the lucky ones. Expressing your love for someone is easy as well as difficult! Actions speak louder than words. Prove him your love :) Do what he likes, cook/bake for him. Express your love through hand made cards or chocolates or any such creative thing. Most of all, make him feel loved all the time. Don't cling to him, give him space. Boys require there personal space. Do not cling! Gifts are another thing, showing him your love by actions will make him realise you're into him. Good luck!
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