How can I tell my boyfriend how I feel about him?
Misty72
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Feb 28, 2021
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They say honesty is the best policy when it comes to everything and I think that rings true in relationships. It sounds like you’re a little nervous and that’s OK telling somebody how you feel is a huge step especially when it comes to intimate relationships. Just take a deep breath and tell him how you feel. You are not responsible for his reaction to the news whether it be good or bad. Who knows the feelings may be mutual. Keeping quiet about your true feelings I’m not gonna make your feelings go away. If he does not feel the same way it is better to know now than to spend time in a one-sided relationship.
Cloveyy
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Mar 13, 2021
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I usually will give a gift to show I care & appreciate him. I also like to have one on one time with him to tell him my feelings & how much I care about him. Never over text, always in person. If I ever have a problem, I'll usually wait until a day he doesn't have anything else going on, good or bad. Then I can have a sit down talk with him. Always calm, never angry or harsh tone. I want to show him respect, just as much as I want him to respect me. Remind them often how much you care about them so they don't feel threatened.
Anonymous
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Mar 31, 2021
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It can sometimes be difficult to put our feelings for someone into words, however, it can be done with reflection, kindness, and presence. Start by reflecting on what it is you want to say, and how you can say it in the kindest, most honest way, while still giving the other person the chance to be seen and heard. Once you have an idea of how you will express your feelings, consider finding a time you know both of you will not be distracted or interrupted, perhaps in a safe, quiet place that isn't busy. Finding the right setting is a good way to make sure you can both be fully present in the moment together. Phones or other distracting devices should be silenced or left behind, so both of you can focus on the conversation with each other. Lastly, after telling them how you feel, you want to check in with them to see how they are feeling about it, and whether they understood you in what you were trying to express. This is to ensure you are both on the same page about what you just discussed. Hopefully, these steps will help you tell your boyfriend how you feel about him.
godawgs12
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Apr 1, 2021
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Great question! I assume since you are asking this question you are having some type of difficulty expressing your true feelings to your boyfriend. Begin by asking yourself why this is. Do you feel he will reject or not reciprocate your feelings? If yes then I believe the nature of your relationship is wrong. A boyfriend is someone who IS meant to be there for you. He should be a listening ear and, while you both may not share all of the same viewpoints, you should feel open to talking through things with him. Perhaps you are worried about how you might feel if he does not reciprocate your viewpoints. Try to realize that, while the pain this causes is natural, perhaps it is better (to be let down and have closure) than the constant pain and confusion of not being able to talk things through. Your current confusion causes pain and clarity, (even harsh clarity) will cause relief. It is important to have confidence in yourself to the point where you realize that a) you want a relationship where you can express your feelings to your boyfriend b) you can (and do) express your feelings to your boyfriend and c) even if he doesn't reciprocate your viewpoints than you are going to be okay. Defining your goals in such a way might end a relationship that would have caused you a lot of pain and confusion over the years, and help you orient yourself to a better relationship. In other words, overcome a little bit of initial pain in order to get the reward and avoid long-term pain. Not to mention the fact that this is the worst-case scenario! There is a GOOD chance the boyfriend you're with right now is a good one and will appreciate your openness. Do it and realize you're doing yourself a favor!
Anonymous
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Apr 17, 2021
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I cannot give you advice, but I can tell you to listen to your heart and what you think is best. Don’t be scared to tell him the truth. If you need to talk after this, I am always there for you. The more important thing to remember is that if he has a bad reaction to your feelings, he’s not good for you. I hope that you can use this to help you. Just don’t overthink everything because it will just make it harder. Coming from someone who has trouble sharing her feelings with others. Trust me on this.
Anonymous
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Apr 25, 2021
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Trust and honesty is vital for any relationship. It is important to stay true to who you are and not change yourself just in the fear that someone may leave you. If something is bothering you and you tell him, one of two things may happen. If he understands where you're coming from and chooses to make amends for you then perfect. If not, then he simply does not want you enough, and you don't deserve to be any guy's second choice. The fear of your boyfriend leaving is understandable, nobody's denying that. However I feel you should be your first priority and if he doesn't respect that then he doesn't deserve you.
FrostySunride
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May 8, 2021
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Well it all depends on the context. He already IS your boyfriend, so my guess is that you two mutually agreed you love eachother. But if you're wondering on how to open up and have a honest conversation about how you ''currently'' feel about him it's another question. The answer is actually quite simple. You could start by setting the mood in such a way that you two end up with some alone time. Then openheartedly tell him you want something off your shoulders or that you want to talk about a certain subject. If your boyfriend truly cares about you he will listen and comfort you.
Withyou15
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May 13, 2021
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Conservations are best way to start..
You can have a conversation with your boyfriend..and try to communicate your feeling.
I understand..honest conservation are really hard..but they are glide paths that can help you.
Start with things both of you are comfortable talking about..and then start discussing your feeling for each other...and in this way..it will beacame really easy for both of you.
Conservative ka dual ended..when you tell your feelings to others..it is important to listen to theres too..
A dual understanding is always better..and will help you to reach a better conclusion.
Honesty..openess..patience..and will..without fear of what will be the result..will certainly help.
All the best..you will do great.
KindHeartedFaZi
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Jun 5, 2021
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If you feel special about him let your actions do the work for you he will see that you really care about him and he will show the love and respect to you I believe that everything will be better with both you just do your best always be loyal and faithful and love with no boundaries. When I feel what I feel about him make sure he really love your way of seeing things it's a important thing because if your mind is same is easier to understand but if different then you just have to work hard and I believe that you can do it.
Anonymous
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Jun 10, 2021
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There are many ways to express our feelings, some do by guying gifts no matter how big or small or how expensive or unexpensive it is. Some express it by giving quality of time, or by writing letters, composing a song, dedicating an existing song that can tell what you maybe can't for the moment. You might give him a big hug and while in it saying the words that you wanted to say.
You can make or buy something and give it to him while saying this made me think about you/ I did this thinking of you.
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