How can I tell my boyfriend how I feel about him?
Anonymous
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Nov 11, 2020
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You've made me extremely happy. All my life I was looking for someone to love. I thought it would never happen. Then you came along and made my life special. I am comforted leaning on you, listening to your thoughtful advice, appreciate your kindness towards others. I love you today much deeper than when we first met because love grows. I watch how you treat others and cry when you cry. We've been brought together. As each day passes, my love grows deeper. So, you really are my Prince Charming! I love you!
Anonymous
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Dec 3, 2020
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Write down how you feel so that when you are ready you know how to word it. Most importantly, speak from the heart. Wait until you are comfortable. Maybe when you are talking about your feelings with him share what you are comfortable with sharing. Sometimes not every thing needs to be said at once. Timing is every thing. I think its important to know what your boyfriend or girlfriend's love language is. Maybe its acts of service, doing things for them or it could be receiving gifts. You could find or make something that you know might be sentimental to him and your relationship.
HelpyHooves
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Dec 4, 2020
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I would arrange to meet upsomewhere its better to be face to face rather then on the phone and talk out to eachother how your feeling and what you think for the future of you two Its important to communicate in a relationship so make sure to be as open and honest as you can. If your open with him it should take some stress off of you and deppending on what he says will be up to you to decide what the future is for you two! I hope this will help you and any other people stuggling to talk to their significant other! :3
Anonymous
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Dec 6, 2020
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There's never a perfect moment to open up to someone. I would say that neither the speech or the few sentences we plan in our heads come out exactly as we had them planned. While I don't have a clue how you are feeling towards him, it's necessary to talk about it either if it's good or not. Communication it's key in all type of relationships. If you have something important to discuss with a love one just tell them and don't wait too long to do so. Just choose a time where the both of you can talk, don't go around the bushes. Slide your carts on the table as they're coming. Good luck!
Anonymous
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Dec 9, 2020
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I think the most important thing in telling your boyfriend how you feel is honesty and mutual respect. I think it also important the time and place you communicate your message is important. Setting the right mood and having mutual respect can help with conveying what you want to tell him. I would also say that making sure that you are ready to tell him how you feel is important. You should try to be honest with your emotions and try to convey that best unfiltered but respectfully. I would also try to drop hints about how you feel about him so whatever you are trying to tell him doesn't seem sudden.
PeachyPatchouli
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Jan 3, 2021
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Hello there! I'm Peachy, a certified listener on 7 Cups. I am not inclined to give out advice, but the best way is to be direct and honest with him. It is best to not be afraid of what he has to say, because your emotions and feelings are valid too. Even if he rejects or blocks out your emotions, that would be considered a toxic relationship, so it would be good for you to learn how to get away from him if so. With that in mind, your boyfriend should value your emotions as much as you value his. Have a lovely day!
Anonymous
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Jan 7, 2021
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Using language that is not blaming ("I" and NOT "you") and naming emotions can be helpful in expressing your feelings. You should make sure you feel safe and are not in danger. If you are in danger, please ask for help from your providers or the proper authorities.
It is good for you to be honest and not hide how you feel, so that there is not an explosion of emotions or words said out of passion/emotion that cause irreparable damage.
You can also write down what you want to say so that you are prepared and do not forget the points you want to make.
intelligentLynx1089
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Jan 10, 2021
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Be genuine a about it. These are the reasons:You’re not leading him on, he doesn’t think you’re lying, and you won’t have such a burden weighing on you. Communication is key. Try not to communicate with him indirectly such as text or direct messaging through social media. Indirect communication can lead to a huge misunderstanding. Before you talk to him, gather your thoughts and convey to him what you want. Also, try to go directly to your boyfriend in private. That way, he won’t feel embarrassed. When you tell him, make sure to let him know during the day instead of at night. That way, he won’t go to bed mad (if what you have to tell him is bad).
Anonymous
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Feb 12, 2021
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I recommend saying some examples of how he made you feel a certain way and why it made you feel that way. Explaining will help get the point across and help you better understand the feelings you are trying to convey. Afterwards i think trying to figure out an overall feeling that you want to convey to him will come out naturally. If you have trouble stating your feelings you can ask for his help. for instance ask if he can have a conversation with you about each others feelings so that you don't feel alone about conveying your feelings. on the other hand if you want to tell your feelings and he is not listening you need to set out some time to fully converse and lay everything out and you need to convey that you want to share with him your feelings and it would be great if he can listen.
CosmicAuric
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Feb 13, 2021
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If you are comfortable with face to face communication, try arranging some place you can meet and talk. Then tell him honestly and sincerely how you feel.
If you are a bit shy maybe compose a letter or email and as above tell
him honestly and sincerely how you feel about him.
Either way it’s best just to be honest and sincere. Also it can really add a closer connection in your relationship when you tell each other how you truly feel about one another.
Telling him how you feel is a good idea and don’t try to be too hesitant, as chances are he would appreciate your honesty.
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