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How can I tell my boyfriend how I feel about him?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 3, 2019
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Be open and honest. If you have trouble talking to him face to face maybe try another method. For example a text a voice note or even a letter. If you want your feelings to be considered you have to communicate or else you’ll fall into the risk of unhappy relationship. Your boyfriend can not read your mind. You have to be vocal and expressive about how you feel. If you feel threatened seek help immediately rather than directly talking to your boyfriend. Communicate can resolve a lot of things. It’s easy but difficult but once done things are better.
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Profile: Puppylover2017
Puppylover2017 on Nov 15, 2019
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Just tell him how you really feel. If he is really into you, he will actually take the time to sit down and listen to what you have to say. If you're telling him some bad news, tell him you don't want to argue about it but you want to just have a normal conversation. WHen I told my ex that I didn't feel the same way, I made sure that he understood that I didn't want to argue about it. It never helps when you guys argue because then it brings in more of an issue. I hope that this helps at least a little bit :)
Profile: GenuineEnergy321
GenuineEnergy321 on Jan 15, 2020
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It is good to plan things out sometimes however, other times it is better to allow things to come from the heart. In this case it may be better for you to explain how you feel to him by just allowing the expressions to come naturally. If you feel comfortable around him then it could be slightly easier to allow your thoughts to run wild and voice your emotions to him as they come. If he is the right one then he will appreciate your honesty and emotion. It can be scary to be vulnerable but also very rewarding in the long run.
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Anonymous on Jan 22, 2020
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Since you are already in a relationship, doing this shouldn't be taken wrong. If you are in a relationship with him maybe try doing little things like making him breakfast, or getting him his favorite type of soda or candy. Just doing small things that show that you care. Maybe make him a card on his brithday or just out right telling him. It will be a little awkward at first most likely, but he will probably tell you how he feels about you also. I know from personal experiences that guys tend to be starved of attention and like getting attention.
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Anonymous on Jan 23, 2020
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Be honest. Be direct. Be frank. Be open. Be yourself. Sit together and talk through. Ask questions. Answer questions Honestly. Be ready for anything and accept the answers.
Profile: bellarina74
bellarina74 on Jan 31, 2020
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The best way to do this is to just be honest. Don’t be scared to talk to him or tell him things. If he is the right person for you he will accept and understand what you are saying. If he doesn’t want to talk about how you feel then maybe you are not with the right person. If you are not feeling listened to or respected it may be time to move on. Just make sure you take time to grieve the loss of the relationship and surround yourself with those that love you. You will be okay without a boyfriend. It may not be what you want but you can do things independently very well. You’ve done it before and you can do it again.
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Anonymous on Feb 8, 2020
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Well the easiest way is just talk to him. But maybe you are too shy for that . I love writing letters. I usually start on my laptop so I can still make a few changes, but then write it longhand, because it is way more personal. If its a love letter this is particularly cute and boys love it too! If you want to tell him negative feelings, you can also do so in a letter, but make sure, you dont accuse him, but rather describe your feelings! Also give him a possibility to come back to you and talk about it.
Profile: Pikachan
Pikachan on Apr 3, 2020
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If you want to tell your boyfriend how you feel about him, start with the simplest ones. Like how he makes you smile for no reasons at all and makes you happy through out the days especially when it's those ups and downs where you struggle with your own insecurities and problems. Make him feel like he's wanted and appreciated, spoil him with small kisses and smacks on his lips as a sign of gratefulness that he belongs to you. Small things matters too. -This means he might or may not notice it but it still matters. Saying 'Thank you' and 'welcome' makes things much more pleasing to the ears. The more you show him that you are serious and affectionate towards him the more both of you are building a better relationship for your future.
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RainyParadise9425 on Apr 21, 2020
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if you can't tell your boyfriend how you feel about him then it's better to write it down on a paper and give it to him or tell someone to give it to him just don't forget to write your name or write a text to him.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 16, 2020
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It is better to tell him sooner rather than later so that it doesn't hurt him as much if it will hurt him. Tell him how you feel and what makes you feel that way. Make sure he knows that it is okay for you to feel whatever you are feeling. It doesn't matter if it is good or bad because he should know either way. Also, it is better for him to hear about it from you than someone else because it will effect him more if it is not coming from you. Make sure to just tell him not beat around the bush.
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