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How can I tell my boyfriend how I feel about him?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 1, 2018
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First, offer a private and direct conversation, make sure face to face conversation because if you see their face, you can know they are listening or not. Second, talk in a gentle way. Tell them how you feel (happy, sad, pleasant or unpleasant... etc.) Then ask him how does he feel after you tell him about this
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Profile: Eveninglivvie
Eveninglivvie on Aug 2, 2018
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There are several ways you could try to tell him in a letter or over a candle lit dinner. The possibilities are endless
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 10, 2018
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Honest conversation is the key to a good relationship. You could first not down or practice your points in from of mirror and then sit in a comfortable environment and talk in a friendly manner about your concern.
Profile: goldenApple91
goldenApple91 on Aug 15, 2018
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Good feelings should be easy to share unless he doesn’t want a relationship. Bad feelings are more difficult and you want to be careful not to say negatives things that you’ll regret. Sometimes letting those slide and turning your attention to something positive is best.
Profile: frostymango546
frostymango546 on Sep 5, 2018
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You can tell her how much you love him and make him feel that he is special for you. You can make him believe that he is perfect for you with his imperfections and you love him the way he is. You can tell him that your world is incomplete without him. Happiness and success has no meaning without his support. And you want to love him throughout your life and want him to love you for this life. Your love is beyond these worldy things because you see stars in his eyes and want him to see galaxies in her eyes too
Profile: sereneFireworks45
sereneFireworks45 on Nov 7, 2018
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Just be honest. Opening yourself up to being vulnerable invites him into that space where you can both be honest. Are there things you're worried about? How he might react for example? Often these fears are not realised when you actually get to talk. Being vulnerable is scary, but unless you express yourself, you won't know what he is thinking either! He might be sitting there wondering how to open up to you as well! I hope it goes well, but even if it doesn't you won't be left wondering about what might have happened or how he might feel.
Profile: amazingRainbow20
amazingRainbow20 on Nov 21, 2018
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I know it takes a lot of courage sometimes to say things that are on your heart, but once you do it’s like a weight is lifted off your shoulder, and you no longer have to hide or fake how you truly feel. In my opinion that’s the best part of being in a relationship, having someone you can go to whenever you need to talk, and someone who accepts you. Even if it’s something they won’t like, you should talk to them about it, because you could just be second-guessing yourself. Just breathe, and tell him how you really feel.
Profile: ryanjsmith
ryanjsmith on Nov 21, 2018
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That heavily depends upon what you are telling him, if positive this should be fairly easy, simply telling him how you feel straight up is plenty and he will love you for it. On the other hand, if it's more of a discussion about a problem in the relationship or the fact you simply want to split up, it becomes a much more sensitive subject and much more difficult to work with. If you need to tell him something serious, personally I would recommend you to do it in person as this will usually help him come to terms with things and make him feel better about it in general. Just ensure you aren't going to hurt him any more than is needed.
Profile: HamRadio4Life
HamRadio4Life on Dec 6, 2018
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Think of what comes to mind when you think of him. Ask yourself what it was that attracted you to him in the first place. Think about the small things he does that make you smile or hurt your feelings. By doing that, you have a the beginning of a solid foundation on starting the conversation and being able to hold his attention while you say what you feel is needed to be said and how it needs to be said. Also, ask yourself why you need to tell your boyfriend how you feel. Is there something wrong? If it's just to express love, then you'll be good to go!
Profile: littlegenius
littlegenius on Feb 3, 2019
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Being true to yourself is always the best way to make yourself happy. So please open up your true feelings to your boyfriend. One tip to make this work better. Please choose a time when he has a good mood with less anxiety. So that he can be a good listener and things will be worked out. Sometime, when he avoid to listen to you and it may not mean that his feelings on you is decreasing time by time. But he may be very tired from a long day. He must have his own stress (work, family matter and etc). That's why choosing the best timing and situation to open up your feeling to him plays vital role.
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