How can I stop thinking about him/her? Why my heart hurts so much?

You're a human who is capable of feeling.. both happiness and heartache.. If you have loved someone or trusted someone and they have betrayed you in some manner, then you obviously feel sad because they have disappointed you.. because you held them to a certain standard and they didn't meet it.. As they say the heart wants what it wants.. You just can't stop yourself from feeling and that's okay... Please understand it's alright to not be alright.. when you are constantly thinking of how to forget someone, in reality we're only spending more time thinking of them.. maybe instead of trying to forget, we can try to move on.. If possible, try to talk with this person, get everything out in the open and you might feel better... or do stuff that you enjoy or make you happy because being happy is your right too.. I hope you get all the happiness you deserve..

What is done is done.. No one can reverse it.. It is hard to erase people and memories from our brain.. But what you can do is.. keep yourself busy.. be around people and try to do things that make you happy. I know it is hard.. It will always be.. bu if you try.. I know you can push through this and get over it.. Look at the positive side.. Now he cant hurt you any more than this.. He doesnt know what he is loosing.. you are worth more than this pain..

I stop thinking about him when I'm focus about my self, my life, and my goals. and I'm digging my hobbies so I can have fun and forget about him. but the first thing to do is let him go and let yourself go from this breakup / heartache. Cheers for life!

Because that person came into your life. She took your heart, she entered the most vulnerable part of you. You shared intimacy, support and words you would't tell anyone. You simply fell in love, just like your parents did, just like everybody does, and it hurts.

Don't stop yourself and eventually it will stop forever. It's human nature whatever we might to try to resist we want it more. So, don't stop just keep doing it. Once it will cross the limits it won't hurt you it stopped bothering you because you already get too hurt regarding it. Feel lost for once completely and then you will found yourself soon. Feel whatever hurts you try to get to know your pain, extent of your pain only then you can overcome it. Stay blessed! 😊

When we care about someone so much and they aren't around anymore, it hurts so much mentally as well as psychically - people often say to us, you will get over it but we don't we heal in a way that, the thing that hurt us, we can handle it - time is a great healer, no matter how tough things are. We will concur it.

Go out with your friends and enjoy the the life of yours that you forgot about They are not worthy of your pain nor tears if they didn't care to wipe them

To stop thinking about someone it takes time, especially if it is someone you used to love a great amount. Something I have found helpful is going out with friends, doing activities that you like, such as exercising, reading, singing, anything really. And meeting new people/spending more time with friends will eventually help heal the pain. Another thing that helps me is thinking that if something wasn't meant to be, this is why it didn't work out, and it's all for the best!

I don't recommend drugs or alcohol to anybody, but where breakups are concerned, they have always worked for me. So 80 proof

Your heart hurts because it is badly bruised. Find gentleness, kindness, and time for yourself, like you might for a dear friend. Bruises heal on their own schedule, and the hurt is less if we can take care of ourselves and find nourishment.