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How can I stop thinking about him/her? Why my heart hurts so much?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 10, 2016
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Open up your heart. Indulge yourself in the things you love to do the most. Live for the people who love you and not for the ones who leave you lost because you live only once. :)
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 11, 2016
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Because right now your letting emotions run through and that what happens after breakups. You have let your heart hurt in order to let it all go..
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Anonymous on Jun 11, 2016
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You need to get your life together. Prioritise what matters and what doesn't. Your heart might be hurting because you are disappointed. But don't be stuck in the disappointment. You know better now. Give yourself a set period to mourn/cry/ release emotion. If you want to stop thinking about them you should think about yourself and not him/her.
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Princessonablackhorse on Jun 12, 2016
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The hurting of your heart is a chemical reaction triggered by grief. There is no sure shot way to stop thinking, speaking from my past, but your broken heart will heal at its own pace, and then you will eventually move on and stop thinking about him/her.
Profile: lovecherry08
lovecherry08 on Jun 16, 2016
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Divert Your Mind..Keep urself busy and indulged in things you love doing .. Join Some guitar, dance Or Music Classes..Spend time with Famile ..Go out For a Outing.. Why you want to suffer or hurt urself for his/her sins.. You have Got this life to learn ,to love, to explore, to be Happy..Make a Bucket List Things you wanna Do before you die..And just Start Doing All of them one by one..:) Keep smiling Always.. :)
Profile: BestPotato
BestPotato on Jun 16, 2016
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You stop thinking about him/her when you start moving on or start thinking about something more fun and different. The more you think of him/her, the more your heart hurts.
Profile: JackSkel
JackSkel on Jun 24, 2016
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The best way to stop thinking about someone you love is to distract yourself. Don't give your mind time to think about them. Watch movies, draw, do whatever keeps you busy!
Profile: AutumnLeigh
AutumnLeigh on Jun 30, 2016
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Your heart may hurt for not being able to be with this person. Time does heal but we have no control over time. It is healthy to sometimes think of our losses but unhealthy to have that person be the forefront of every thought we have every day. If this is the case, try to use distractions such as hobbies or volunteer work that makes you feel good!
Profile: charmingOrange11
charmingOrange11 on Jun 30, 2016
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Distracting yourself can be really hard and sometimes just doesn't even work. I suggest writing a long list of things you didn't like about them and sending it to someone willing to listen. Maybe you just need to talk about it more. Do not isolate yourself if you can help it.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 2, 2016
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It's normal to feel this way and it will feel like this for a while. Just try to be with people who love you.
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