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How can I stop talking to my ex after a breakup?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 15, 2016
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If you two decided to break up, there is obviously a reason why. Often times, we do not see certain things when we are in a relationship. Although break ups can be extremely painful, it is best to take this time to reflect on things. You can't take back what was said and done, however, you can take this time to better yourself and learn from your past. By doing so, you will be focusing on yourself, rather than focusing too much on what is already gone. In this context, your ex partner.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 7, 2016
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Well there are a few things you can do. For starters block him on everything. Snapchat, facebook, instagram, his number. Whatever you have it's gone. If he finds another way to contact you block that too.
Profile: mhiggins
mhiggins on Nov 8, 2016
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I know sometimes it can be very difficult to stop the feeling towards an ex, but in the long run it gets easier and you can overcome them.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 15, 2021
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Breakups can be very emotional and heartbreaking. Acknowledging that this is a very hard time and allowing yourself to feel is important. In some cases, you may need to block them on all social media and platforms to allow yourself time to heal if you feel it may be too hard not to reach out. Sometimes remembering that the other person is probably hurting too and deserves space for themselves, as well. Respecting their choices may look like not talking to them after a breakup. Talking with someone who is not your ex about how you feel may make it easier not to reach out to your ex.
Profile: Imad23
Imad23 on Nov 7, 2014
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Ignore her texts. Get rid of any momentos that might remind you of her. That way you'll stop thinking of her and won't feel the need to talk to her.
Profile: ActiveListener0809
ActiveListener0809 on Sep 1, 2015
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Try to focus on yourself. Look for different things to do that are new and can challenge yourself to steer your thoughts to other things.
Profile: NoNonsenseGuy
NoNonsenseGuy on Dec 21, 2015
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It's easy! Just don't. Fill your days with activities that you enjoy doing that also require concentration. For example, rock climbing, hiking or running trails. spend time with friends and family. If you have no friends or family then get a job or a second job.
Profile: mike251
mike251 on Jan 18, 2016
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Delete their phone number, Facebook, etc. You need to realize that if you want them back, it is probably best to have some space before you guys make a move.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 16, 2016
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Stopping talking with someone with whom you used to be close may be really difficult, but not impossible. I suggest doing things you like in order to keep your mind busy. You can also start hanging out with your friends and soon you will be able to move on.
Profile: Bubbles46
Bubbles46 on Mar 16, 2016
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Maybe give them a minute to themselfs and text them in a little bit because they might need some space
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