How can I stop talking to my ex after a breakup?

Don't talk to them in any form. Block them on any social media or/and his number. It's better to distance yourself from the person rather than getting attached again.

You try to focus on your priorities, relax, go out with your friends, keep yourself busy, try to work on your self-love and spiritual development. Now is time for freedom and do whatever you like. Social interaction can have a positive, cheerful effect. Just LIVE IN THE NOW- AND YOU WON'T MISS ANYTHING !

Just stop,, Its a closed chapter.. The more you talk to him/her.. the more complicated and messy it gets.. your mind will confuse itself on thinking what is going on.. :) the earlier you stop talking, the better :) Keep yourself busy in activities and around people.. talk to other people and try being happy.. enjoy the time you get and stay positive

I was in a relationship for about 3 years already, when I realized that this guy was an awful influence and he was only bragging me down. I knew I hat to break up with him and delete him, but it took a lot of time. Every now and then he would have called me and I would have been happy to see him again, we were crying and hugging and making love, but it hat to end. I closed myself completely for a while, concentrated on my own things and it helped. I had to ignore a bunch of messages from him and I felt bad about it, but a year later I know that it was the best thing I could do. Every time I needed to tell him something I posted it on a secret blog, imagining he would at some point read it. He texted, I answered to the blog. Then eventually he stopped calling and I moved on. Best decision ever.

Block your ex, click the mute button, don't reply to your ex's messages that's the right thing to do. It's time to focus on yourself, for you to move on and recover from the breakup.

I think the important thing to do is to do no contact and to eliminate anything that reminds you of them.

Keep your head held high. Even when you think about your ex, push it aside. Don't look to your past, you're not going that way.

You cant stop because you still have the need to stick with your ex. Fill in your mind with sth else. Keep yourself distract from your ex. When a time pass you will not feel the need to talk to your ex because they didnt take a part in your life for a while. Then you will find yourself doing just fine with out them.

For me it helped, when I took ok therapy course. I was still talking and still hoping but with more knowledge I found out, that it was good decision to break up and with a time it went really well for me. We still talk and some echo of the past is still there, but it is more fun than ever and it is as rare as my salary increase :D

Have you thought about the reasons you keep talking to your ex? It seems that you want to stop, but something compels you to talk to them again. One tip: give yourself all the love you can. It might help to close your eyes and imagine yourself getting a hug from you. This would be a literal self-love exercise. Also, focus on an activity that you enjoy doing by yourself and take yourself on a date, even if it's watching a movie at home. Caring for yourself unconditionally is the first step to moving on.