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How can I stop feeling like no one will ever compare to the boyfriend/girlfriend I broke up with?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 25, 2015
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Stop comparing everyone to your past, so you can look ahead to your further , that is how you'll be able to help
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Profile: Greatlistener87
Greatlistener87 on Jul 4, 2016
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You have to accept that there is a reason for your breakup and whatever that reason is you bf/gf that u have broken up with is not perfect for that reason and many more. Give the people out there a chance to show u that what you are looking for they have.
Profile: northernangel
northernangel on Feb 5, 2018
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I’ve had this issue before. If my boyfriend did one thing I expected all my others to do that same thing. And if they didn’t I would convince myself they didn’t love me as much. Which is completely untrue. Comparing a current relationship with on who previously ended is the best to fast-track a breakup. Look at this new person as a different entity not just another boyfriend. Reminisce about your old lovers, but don’t forget to appreciate what you have in the present.
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