How can I stop attracting the wrong guys and getting heartbroken constantly?

What are the common themes abou these guys that initially attracts you? Slight side note. What is your definition of the "Wrong guy". Are this guys jerks - emotionally, psychologically, physically mean? Unfaithful? Uninvested? Are these wrong guys just relationships that haven't worked out? The common factor in either circumstance is YOU. We can't change people or force life to always go how we want it to, but we can control ourselves. So the best we can do is reflect on how we contributed to our circumstances and change the behaviour in hopes we get a better outcome. An example might be taking note of where you tend to meet guys. Maybe you go to places where good guys don't tend to hang out. It's not uncommon for guys to behave themselves to woo the girl until they get what they want and their real personality shines through. It's a complex situation that requires self-reflection and understanding our role in attracting or picking the people that come into our lives.

We simply fall in love with the thought of love. Normally we don’t fall in love with the person the words are what grab our attentions. The guys that seem like they’ll be fun are typically the guys that do break your heart. Get to know the guy and create an opinion of the guy before going after them. If he isn’t the one for you and you do not have any sparks with him don’t go for him. You were created for a soul mate so getting rid of the guy is one step closer to your soulmate

just take it easy dont rush things up.. if you like him or he lik you just take it calm and be just friends if things go right you can now go out.. nut thevthings you need look out is if he really loves you and respects you for who you are and also know if he is a cheater

The key here is to set your standards and not lower it down nor go with someone only for their looks. Yes it the what makes us attracted with someone but in the long run, it is not important. Having a lot of things in common [from interest, values, beliefs] and personality are much more important than physical looks. It is also important both of you trust each other and can accept each other for who you are. I suggest to stop and reevaluate first what you are looking for in a man. From there, do not rush when someone would indeed enter your life because something that is rush will only lead to trouble and heartache. It takes love, commitment, trust and a lot of work.

What was your last relationship I would suggest to stay calm. Don't rush anything. Set out a goal plan for the next person.

First be friends for a while know that person well then think of being with him in relationship .. It will help you to attract wrong guys ..

Take some time to really get to know the guy before you ever date. Ask friends, or even parents if they know them to see their honest opinion. This will help you decide whether it's good to date him or not.

The best thing I could say would be to be strong in yourself as a person. Know what you want and know that those things, you deserve them. Do not ever settle for less.

I believe attracting a guy takes a certain kind of Chemistry and for you two to have shared interests. As such, I believe that to attract the right guys, you should pursue the things you truly love, and not let yourself get influenced by people who might be causing you to behave in ways/ engage in activities you do not feel passionate about or interested in. Do something you love, and meet other people who love these things too.

I need to be stronger and choose the right people in life who could give me assurance on their love for me by proving it.