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How can I move on from a breakup if I was certain he was the one?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 16, 2015
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The important thing to remember is that a breakup happens for a reason. You may have felt like he was the one, but there are some relationships where that feeling will surface at some point or another. Don't worry. You'll find the one!
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Profile: Compassioness89
Compassioness89 on Dec 1, 2015
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That is a tough one. Breakups are difficult and messy and make us feel like we will never find love again and that no one will ever be able to live up to the person we once loved so deeply. But that feeling is temporary. You will be crushed now, but eventually, you will see that your emotions attached to that person will change over time and create more space for someone new. Chin up!
Profile: Bblovetj
Bblovetj on Mar 7, 2016
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Often times we realize that he/she isn't the one and that is when you're supposed to move on except that is the hardest part! Let me tell you... it does get better I promise and one day you will find someone that is just perfect for you.
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Anonymous on Apr 19, 2016
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Just remember that you are such an amazing person and if he cant see that, then he doesn't deserve you. You deserve to shine, dont let somebody take that away from you.
Profile: Loveyourself2444
Loveyourself2444 on May 16, 2017
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There are things in life that happen and that they hurt us alot things we question or always ask why? But everything happens for a reason and I know that it hurts but is time to let him go is time to keep on walking I know is hard and that is seems as you can't but u can do it is time to move on with life time to stop hurting yourself time to find happiness somewhere else
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Anonymous on Dec 9, 2014
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You need to understand that nobody is the "one". If it has ended, you better let go off it. Cause if you don't, you are the one who'll suffer. Moving on is hard, but once you try not to forget things so hard, it becomes easier. Focus on goood things aroung you :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 23, 2014
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Just because he made you happy doesn't mean someone else couldn't make you happier. If he doesn't want to be with you then you need to make yourself to move on. I recommend having activities that you always do in and out of relationship that you only do with friends. so that you still have things to do that you can always enjoy with or without him.
Profile: catsandchocolate
catsandchocolate on Oct 22, 2015
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I find it hard believe that there is a "one" for us. Maybe he was the one for the time you were together but not any more. Try not to focus on the thought that you have lost the one or you will struggle to move on. It painful and takes time but you will get over it, learn to be happy without him and eventually meet someone else who will be just as important to you. (Although focus on being happy on your own first and don't place importance on meeting someone else) Keep busy. Accept any invites that come your way. Talk to your friends and family about how your feeling, let yourself have a good cry every now and again. (I got dumped after being with someone happily for 7 years so I know what you're going through and it's horrible but it does get better... Promise!)
Profile: LittleLemon96
LittleLemon96 on May 16, 2016
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Having this feeling is normal because you still want him some way, you can never really know that he is the one, if it was so you wouldn't have broke up..
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