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How can I make it easier to tell them I want to break-up?

Profile: hellopomegranate4772
hellopomegranate4772 on Apr 23, 2015
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It's hard to make it painless, even for the both of you. Depends on the situation, but try to let them know that they were not the only ones failing the relationship, that it was on you too.
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Profile: AppleSauces
AppleSauces on May 14, 2015
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Say it kindly! Don't do it around people, or with attidude. Do it in person when it's just the two of you. Also, do not post it on facebook,instagram, etc, before you talk to them about it! Make it easy on both of you.
Profile: Brittneym101
Brittneym101 on Jul 11, 2015
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Breaking up with someone can be very hard to do. The one thing you want to avoid doing when trying to breakup with your partner is NEVER do it in a text message or over the phone. Do this type of thing face to face and never have a friend or anyone else do it for you. Always give your partner a reason/explanation as to why you are breaking up with them, otherwise you're going to make it even harder for them to move on after the breakup because they're going to want to know why you're ending things. Always be respectful when ending a relationship no matter what the reason is. Don't be cold about it. Just tell them that the relationship isn't working out. Tell them why it's not working out and go from there.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 18, 2015
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A calm mind and clean concience makes for an easy way. I start with some of my internal issues before I go do a task.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 25, 2015
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if that person is understanding then you have nothing to worry about, all you have to say is, " i dont think this will lead to a healthy relationship, its better if we stop here and seek love in other directions, but you have been a wonderful person it just does not feel healthy for us both."
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 17, 2015
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There really is no easier way for breaking up. You just have to do it and hope that they will react appropriately.
Profile: Manifestation
Manifestation on Nov 24, 2015
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Face-to-face or phone contact is a must. If you do Face-to-Face find a neutral place that is away from both of your homes. Be direct, honest and to the point.
Profile: Greatlistener87
Greatlistener87 on Mar 21, 2016
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Its always good to be honest and to explain on why u made the decision in the first place and how u feel about the decision.
Profile: Flawlessinsanity21
Flawlessinsanity21 on Jun 7, 2016
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Remind yourself that it's the best thing for you. Remember that you need to come first, your happiness and care, and so if this is going to help improve those things you should do it.
Profile: brightWings16
brightWings16 on May 22, 2018
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Something that can help make a break-up easier is by saying that it isn't something that they did and that it is simply something you have been feeling. Don't make the break-up seem like it is one sided and definitely make it quick so that it can be over with.
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