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Profile: brightMango41
brightMango41 on May 16, 2019
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Use this time to develop your own interests. Find things you enjoy or learn a new skill. Take time to find some kind of community--a group of friends or something with people who share common interests. Think about things you would like to change for yourself and set achievable goals. All of these things will help you build confidence and feel good about yourself. If you change the question a bit, that can help too. Try to think of it as "how can I most effectively use this time?" Or "What is within my power to change right now to improve my life?"
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Profile: kendogblaze
kendogblaze on May 17, 2019
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Think of why you feel the way you do about being single. Are you afraid of being alone? Do you wish you had someone with which to share your emotions, thoughts, or life? Or do you want to remain single? Whatever it is, know that being single isn't necessarily a bad thing. There's a lot of pressure in society seek a relationship, whether it's through your friends, family, or social media. The truth is, a lot of people aren't ready for a relationship or don't even want one, and that's okay. Don't worry about trying not to be single. Try to think of what you can do with the extra time you have as someone single. Take this time to invest in yourself. Pick up a new hobby, go out with your friends, or meet new people. Build yourself. If you do want a relationship in the future, when the time's right and you feel that you're ready for a relationship, go out and give it a try. One last thing, don't compare yourself to others, especially people in relationships on social media, because everything is not always as it seems. Don't rush. You have time, and when the time is right, you'll know.
Profile: Hanaa00
Hanaa00 on Jun 12, 2019
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Being single... honestly, i think it’s the BEST time to start focusing on being happy, not about being single, but simply while being single. Let me quickly explain. Now that you’re single, you get to focus more on your friends rather than just on that one person, you get to spend more time with people who bring joy to your life, you get to do things that YOU are passionate about, and most importantly, you get to focus on accepting yourself and loving yourself the way you are. And the moment you find a way to love yourself unconditionally and independently of anyone else, you will also be happy about being single... or just happy in general 💗
Profile: maddisonblogs0
maddisonblogs0 on Jun 22, 2019
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Go to partys, stay with your friends, do what you like to do, read, dance, sing, searching a talent, it is simple if you put your effort. You have to be yourself always and not get carried away by others. If the others are in a relationship, you must be happy for them, that blue prince will come to you who will make you really happy, and you will be happy about it. If you love yourself, there you can just love another, never before, and that must have time, it is not easy. But if you're single, your quiet, that man would come
Profile: serenitynyx22
serenitynyx22 on Jun 23, 2019
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I know a lot of people who are happy being single. They do the things they want to do. Say example, you want to go to the mall or the bookstore, and when you were in a relationship, you had to keep changing plans. But now you're single, you could do anything you want. I'm not saying that being single is the best thing nor am I saying be single forever. To be happy being single is a choice too. Do what you love to do. Do the things you wished you could do when you weren't single. It takes time, but nobody is not in a hurry. I hoped that helped.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 5, 2019
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See how it benefits you so much. You can dig your potential without having anything that will hinder you from growing up. You can find your real self. Being single is not bad. I'm more concerned if someone simultaneously wants to get into a relationship. I'm afraid that they can't love themselves first that they need others to say they love them. You can stay single, until you find the one. You don't have to go through break ups. Or couple fights. You won't always receive the love you deserve. But it's alright. You just need to see you're worthy enough. That you don't need to worry about that certain someone not loving you.
Profile: supportivekayla
supportivekayla on Jul 6, 2019
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Break ups can be very difficult since you are so used to their company and spending so much time together. Now, you have to figure out how to live your life without them. Being happy while single is possible. Find things that you enjoy doing, people you enjoy doing them with, and keep your mind occupied. Being single doesn’t mean you are alone, because there are many people that care for you and love you. Don’t let your mind wander into places in which you would be unhappy. Don’t be afraid to ask questions, we are all here to listen.
Profile: tacobella4
tacobella4 on Jul 11, 2019
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For me, what I’ve come to learn is relationships come with A LOT of responsibility. And now after breaking up with my ex, I’m happy to FINALLY bask in the beauties of the single life. It comes down to this: What we see about other people in their relationships is only the tip of the iceberg. All we see on social media is other people having fun, making out, and going to fancy restaurants. What we don’t see are the arguments, insecurities, or incompatibilities within the relationship. We also don’t see the constant stress endured by each person over having to manage someone else’s emotions. When you’re single, that doesn’t mean you have to be completely free of love or dating. You can join a dating website, get closer to someone you know, or meet someone new tomorrow. However, what it DOES mean is that, for a short and beautiful period of time, you have yourself—ALL TO YOURSELF. Take this time to find a new hairstyle, flirt with who you like, watch that TV show your friends are always trying to get you to watch, or simply practice the art of self-care. You will most definitely find love in your life. You will MOST DEFINITELY get tied town into a relationship down the line, and when that happens, it’ll be amazing. Why rush?
Profile: LampIntheRain
LampIntheRain on Jul 21, 2019
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Being single I enjoy my work, my hobby. Being single gives me more open minded towards the things that I want to do. I can also indulge in activities both social and others without being stopped by someone. Being single also helps me to increase my self independence and also the self esteem to self motivate myself. Being self and living freely is the most important quality that any one should conceive. Single life have many benefits like creating your own world of thoughts and thinking which not only nourishes you, but the world included society shall benefit , peace.
Profile: lisalovescats98
lisalovescats98 on Aug 2, 2019
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You do not need to be in a relationship to be happy. In fact, it's hard to be in a healthy relationship when you're not happy yourself. Working on yourself is the best thing you can do. Try to find your true self, find new hobbies and interests, focus on your mental health, which is a major key to happiness in the long run and you'll feel so much better. You can't love someone else if you dont love yourself. Make you a priority, not other people. That only sacrifices your own sanity and happiness. Love yourself before you love others.
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