He said I was perfect for him, but he chose someone else?
Anonymous
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Aug 13, 2016
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Then too bad for him ! You don't need him focus on loving yourself because you're the one who deserves it the most ! :)
Anonymous
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Aug 19, 2016
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Actions speak louder than words. If he didn't choose you, either he didn't mean what he said or he felt it was better you two not be together. Whatever his reasons, move on. You deserve someone who will choose you.
Anonymous
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Jul 15, 2016
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It must be hard right now because you feel as this person was supposed to be there for you because you guys were perfect together but sometimes us as humans we tend to go for things that we think is better for us so the best thing to do is build your self-esteem
Anonymous
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Aug 27, 2016
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Sometimes people get confused as to what to say to let you down easy, he sured tried not to hurt you too much, but it looks like he didn't like you that way after all.
Kaishi29
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Aug 28, 2016
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Maybe he was trying to lessen the blow of not choosing you. Or maybe you were just too perfect for him and he wanted something imperfect. Either case, it's his loss. You get to move on and not be with someone who didn't chose you despite your perfectness.
Brianaishere
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Sep 7, 2016
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We all are human, we say things and we do the opposite. It surely must have nothing to do with you but with their own selves
Anonymous
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Sep 22, 2016
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He was having issues and wanted to see if the grass is greener on the other side. It could also be that he could'nt make up his mind at that time.
Anonymous
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Jan 7, 2017
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He was only saying that to soften the blow of the hurt that was inevitably coming. Sugarcoating the branch swing to a different person. It's a horrible feeling being told something like that yet their actions speak an entirely different language, but my advice from personal experience is to watch what they do rather than listen to what they say.
Sburns672
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Feb 5, 2017
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It sounds like he wasn't being completely truthful. No one can be perfect for another person, no matter how hard they try, but that is normal and healthy. Many boys will try to sweet talk you by saying you are "perfect" for them. This could be true, but it also mightn't be. Either way, you shouldn't let this person's opinion of you or choices affect your opinion of yourself.
joyfulParadise42
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Apr 1, 2017
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I got through that, too. The thing is boys are always indecisive and easily influenceable. Don't rely to much on their words, they rarely mean them. Look out for their actions rather than words.
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