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He said I was perfect for him, but he chose someone else?

Profile: cosyheart21
cosyheart21 on Oct 22, 2016
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As hard as it is, if he chose someone else, then you weren't perfect for him. Or rather, he wasn't perfect for you. Try to remember that everything happens for a reason. You deserve to be with someone who will not only express that you're the one for him, but will stay with you. He may be with someone else now, but that doesn't define you. If someone is stupid enough to leave you, you have to be smart enough to let them go. You deserve so much better. Stay strong.
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Profile: bubblykat
bubblykat on Jul 16, 2016
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He was careless and said you were perfect because he wanted you to stay with him while he went with someone else. I'm sorry that he chose someone else. It's not your fault.
Profile: YukiSYan246
YukiSYan246 on Jul 17, 2016
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He is just an idiot. Maybe he thinks you are too perfect for him that he decided to let you go OR he was just playing with your feelings.
Profile: Imhere240
Imhere240 on Aug 7, 2016
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You can be strong without him, it's worthless to suffer for person who is even worthless.
Profile: exquisiteLion14
exquisiteLion14 on Aug 27, 2016
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You are perfect on your own. You do not need someone else's validation for your own perfection. You are perfect.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 27, 2016
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That's okay. I might be perfect for him but he wasn't for me. We should fall in love for someone who love us back more. And moreover I may be perfect for many but the one and only one will be perfect for me.
Profile: avanef
avanef on Mar 15, 2017
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I am sorry that happened to you, but let me tell you something: Don't mistake salt for sugar if he wants to be with you he will it's that simple. When you are broken and he has left you do not question whether you were enough the problem was you were so enough he was not able to carry it. You were a dragon long before he came around and said you could fly you will remain a dragon long after he's left. You will find someone who's going to treat you like the entire world that you are. If he said you were perfect and left for someone, then I guess you are just too perfect for him. Just love yourself more than anything, you will be okay.
Profile: iloveredlipstick
iloveredlipstick on Jul 22, 2016
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You should give up and move on because he wasn't perfect for you by doing that. His act just doesn't reflect what he says.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 30, 2016
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Maybe he thought you were perfect at one time but lost feelings, maybe he thought the other person was more perfect. Either way it doesn't seem like he was right for you, and you can find someone better for yourself that will choose you over everyone else.
Profile: Supergirl94
Supergirl94 on Aug 10, 2016
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Some people say what we want to hear. Some people say what they mean and change their minds or become afraid so they choose to run instead of fight. We can never truly know why people say those things to us and do the exact opposite. It's normal to want to understand, the need to understand why. But sometimes we don't get answers, sometimes we have to accept what has been done to us, forgive them however we can and move on with our lives. Make sure the next time is better
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