He cheated on me. Should I give him another opportunity?
TangledRivers
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Feb 22, 2016
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No. He has already disrespected and lied to you if he cheated. That is a frame of mind that does not change just because you're forgiving.
Anonymous
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May 17, 2016
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I dont think so because if he cheated on you the that most likely means that even if you think he does he probably doesn love you like you thought
RogerDan555
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Sep 5, 2016
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A big no. If he has enough guts to cheat you, then he should be left alone. Give this opportunity to someone who cares for you.
CCtheHugAddict
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Apr 11, 2017
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Personally, I believe it would be best to try and end it and move on. Try not to harbor any ill will love, try to forgive. However, you'll find yourself throwing his loyalty into question every time he's alone now. That's added stress that I just don't think you want. Trust is absolutely essential in any kind of healthy relationship love, and it's so hard to rebuild once broken. I'm sincerely sorry that this has happened, I know how hard it hits when your trust is broken, but it's only going to create more arguments and stress for not just you but him as well love.
kvo8
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Oct 17, 2017
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That decision is totally up to you. It depends on how you view cheating and how you feel in regards to the trust in the relationship. It might help to weigh the options between the pros and cons. What are the pros of being with him and providing another opportunity? Things like: he makes you happy, what happened was a total misunderstanding, he makes you feel good things more than anything bad. And what are the cons? Will you no longer trust him, was the relationship good how it was before, etc. Hopefully that helps but ultimately the decision is yours.
Soulfree
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Feb 13, 2018
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To err is human. Don't hesitate to accept him if he realise his fault and sincere in relationship. But this definitely doesn't mean you need to allow him to use you. Think and notice his acts first.
Anonymous
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May 15, 2018
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Once a cheater,always a cheater.Never ever give second chance after your trust is broken,because trust is like a glass,once brokem,cant be the same again.
vMidnightBluesv
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Jan 29, 2019
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Only you can answer that. After the cheating, do you think you are still able to trust this person? Can you move on and leave behind what happened? Is this person worth the try? Only you know. Everyone makes mistakes but trust is very important in a relationship. Once someone breaks it, it can be hard to go back to what it used to be like, and it usually doesn't. What is the point in getting back together if you will always be afraid that it could happen again? Are you mentally prepared to be hurt again if it happens?
Anonymous
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Nov 30, 2020
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do you think you should give him another opportunity? if yes, what makes you want to give him another opportunity? By cheating on you, he broke a special bond in your relationship. If he did it once, he is more likely to do it again, especially since he already knows you're going to take him back. Think about what you really want. Him cheating on you was not a respectful thing to do. It's happened to me before, the worst thing he ever did to me and he probably thought i was going to take him back but not after cheating on me. Cheating on your significant other is a big deal.
Rasenchidori
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Sep 22, 2015
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I do not recommend it because the whole reason we distrust someone is for our own good. It depends on the situation but you have to think whether you would be able to bear with a second occasion of cheating.
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