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He cheated on me. Should I give him another opportunity?

Profile: FlightMode
FlightMode on Jul 12, 2016
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Forgiveness is an essential quality. If he really showed he regreted what he did, and if you love him, I think you can forgive him. :)
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Profile: bubblyNight88
bubblyNight88 on Sep 6, 2016
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No, let him see what he has lost through the making of his own mistake and he'll regret it sooner or later.
Profile: auditrice
auditrice on Sep 5, 2016
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Trust once broken is never replaced even when we try most of the times that 2nd chance never work. The relationship cant stand on doubts which u will always have because cheating is unacceptable
Profile: adriancastro
adriancastro on Oct 27, 2015
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no, because anyone has the relationship must be commited to their word before make the choice. if one of them cheated their commitment, it's no way unless end it up.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 12, 2019
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If he has proven to you not only through words but with actions too, that he has changed, and you are comfortable with giving him another chance, then I say do what you feel is right. However, do stay a little more aware this time round. And remember that no one deserves to be cheated on, no matter the circumstance. Also if you choose to give him another chance you need to remember you can't keep throwing this in his face if in future disagreements come up. I advise that before you give him another chance you practice some self love, and just take some time to yourself, find yourself again, before making any decision. I hope this helps.
Profile: Charrlee
Charrlee on Jan 26, 2016
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From personal experience, I would say no. If someone is willing to cheat once, they will do it again. If someone is willing to cheat once, there is something broken in that relationship and both parties deserve to be with someone who will be faithful. No on deserves to be subject to being the 'cheated on' or the 'cheated with.'
Profile: olimaar
olimaar on Oct 26, 2015
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It depends on you. You should be strong and remember that he disrespected you. You should wait a small time before letting him back into your life, just for some time to yourself. Let him reevaluate his actions.
Profile: lilacenchantress
lilacenchantress on Nov 5, 2015
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Have been there, done that, it's not going to work, don't do it. Sorry.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 6, 2017
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That's a hard one. I would say it depends on how long you have been together and how many times this has happened. Was it just once and he was very sorry, in my opinion yes try and save your relationship. If it's been multiple times rethink why you are still there and allowing this to continue. Only you can answer that part.
Profile: ptvDarcey
ptvDarcey on Apr 1, 2015
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It depends. Sometimes people deserve second chances but if you think that getting back together would end up with you being hurt again, then stay away.
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