He cheated on his girlfriend with me. Why is he ignoring me?

It's hard to say why he's ignoring you without having spoken to him directly so I won't speculate as to why that might be. Whatever his reasons, though, if he won't talk to you it may be best to let that situation go. That's easier said than done, so in the meantime, think about if you want to keep associating with someone who is willing to cheat on his girlfriend? Are you willing to deal with someone who may not communicate well (or at all-assuming he decides to reach back out to you)? Are you willing to stay in the situation if he decides he doesn't want to leave his girlfriend?

If he is cheating on his girlfriend with you, then he may be going through inner turmoil. Cheating on someone often eludes to issues within the relationship, as well as possibly internal conflict (of the person who is cheating on the other). If he is ignoring you, he may be going through an internal struggle and wondering if what he did (cheating) was morally correct and how he feels about it. It is highly possible that he feels remorse, and thus cut off ties with you due to the guilt and regret. If he is ignoring everyone, including you, he may be facing a personal issue in his life. It all depends on who he is as a person, the context, and his moral compass.

There are many reasons someone might start ignoring a person after cheating on their partner with that person. Unfortunately, it is difficult to discern the exact reason they aren't responding without them telling you, but some reasons might be that they've become unavailable, they don't know how to communicate or don't want to communicate, or their circumstances might necessitate a break of communication. For instance, they might need to stop communicating if they have feelings or regrets and want to sort through their emotional states on their own. Also, if they've decided to go back to their partner, their partner may have asked them to stop communicating with the person or people they have cheated with, because cheating involves deception between partners, and moving on after cheating requires partners to rebuild trust. Whatever the reason, now might be a good time to stop focusing on this person, and give yourself love and self-care. This way, if you are hurt or upset from being ignored, you can start your journey toward healing.

It seems that you are mainly frustrated due to him ignoring you or maybe curious to see if he may also be hiding something from you as he did with her. Do you think that it could be something to do with any possible insecurities in the relationship? And are you still comfortable to be in a relationship with someone that you know now is unfaithful. As far as him ignoring you goes, it could possibly be that he is overwhelmed with the anger and frustration coming from his girlfriend so he is choosing to cut out more people from his life right now. Could you tell me what may be the current emotions you are going through?

I think when this happens there can be a lot of factors. He may have got caught and there is shame of him seeing your face, or of the girlfriend or wife leaving if he continues the behavior. Also, he may not have felt that what he had with you was serious enough to warrant further connection, or to permit you closure. The answer here can be tricky because of the very nature of the relationship. A man or woman that would triangulate intimate relationship is creating an element of safety for themselves in case on or the other relationships does not work out. This can compromise either partner and the perpetrator. No one wins in this situation.

I’m sorry to hear you’re feeling ignored, sometimes situations like this can lead to confusing on both sides. Maybe he’s worried about his current girlfriend finding out or he may not want to lead you on and cause further complications for yourself or him. I can imagine this may cause a range of feelings or emotions and even questions from yourself, it’s important to remember that it’s okay to feel this way, you’re aware of the situation and what’s happening. What do you feel would be a good next step progressing forward? Or maybe what would help you feel better?

The reason he is ignoring you, is because he is regretting the decision he made by cheating. He realizes that he made a bad choice and is trying to forget that it ever happened. He isn't ignoring you because you did something, he is ignoring you because he did something. Another reason why he would be ignoring you is to separate himself from the situation he has caused and trying to do what is right in his eyes. I'm sure as time goes on and feelings change he will come around again but not in the same manner.

It could possibly be guilt - I mean, if you were in his shoes I'm sure you'd feel indifferent. Sometimes people attempt to avoid the issues affecting them, however it isn't fair for him to completely ignore you and disregard your emotions in this situation. Furthermore, this boy you are talking to honestly doesn't seem like a good person. If he cheated on his partner for you, what exactly are his morals? What's stopping him from doing the exact same thing to you? I say he is untrustworthy and doesn't deserve your time. However, if you really do believe in him and your relationship; ask for clarity on the situation. If he's not willing to talk, then he is not willing to be with you.

It's not good that he cheated--that implies he broke explicit relationship expectations set out with his girlfriend, which disrespects her as a person. I don't know why he's ignoring you. Maybe he's upset about cheating and having second thoughts; maybe you remind him of the cheating. It's possible he's ignoring you for many other reasons: maybe he's tired, work-related, bad communicator, quirks of personality, almost anything. If the cheating is related to the ignoring, maybe he's not invested in you fully. I would ask yourself whether it's worth pursuing more romantic, sexual, intimate, whatever-they-are-interactions with this person at this point. Maybe it's worth taking a break for awhile, centering yourself to figure out what's going on. If that's the case (maybe it's not the case), consider communicating that directly to this person. Take some time for yourself.